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Paranormal Experiences and Trauma.

What are your thoughts on the correlation between paranormal experiences and traumatic life events? Have you or anyone you know experienced both, and do you think there is a connection between the two?

Have you ever had a paranormal life experience? Maybe you’ve seen a ghost, heard unexplainable noises, or felt a presence in the room. Many people who have had these experiences often wonder if there’s a connection between them and traumatic life events. As it turns out, there may be a correlation between the two.

First, let’s define what we mean by “paranormal life experience.” This refers to any experience that goes beyond what we consider to be normal or explainable by science. It could be anything from seeing a ghost to experiencing telepathy or precognition.

Now, let’s talk about trauma. Traumatic life events are experiences that are overwhelming and can cause lasting psychological harm. This could include physical, sexual, or emotional abuse, neglect, natural disasters, or serious accidents.

So, what’s the connection between the two? Some researchers believe that people who have experienced trauma may be more open to paranormal experiences. One theory is that traumatic events can lead to a heightened sense of awareness and sensitivity to things that are beyond our normal perception. In other words, people who have experienced trauma may be more likely to pick up on paranormal phenomena.

Additionally, some people believe that paranormal experiences are a way for the mind to cope with trauma. For example, seeing a deceased loved one could provide comfort and a sense of connection during a difficult time. Alternatively, experiencing telepathy or other psychic phenomena could provide a sense of control in a situation where someone feels powerless.

It’s important to note that not everyone who has experienced trauma will have paranormal experiences, and not everyone who has had paranormal experiences has experienced trauma. However, there does seem to be a correlation between the two.

If you have had a paranormal experience and also experienced trauma, it’s important to know that you’re not alone. Many people who have gone through traumatic events report having paranormal experiences. It can be comforting to know that others have had similar experiences and to connect with them.

If you’re struggling with the aftermath of trauma, it’s important to seek help from a mental health professional. They can help you work through your experiences and provide support and coping strategies.

So it seems that there is a correlation between paranormal experiences and traumatic life events. While the exact nature of this connection is still not fully understood, it’s clear that many people who have experienced trauma also report having paranormal experiences. If you’re one of these people, know that you’re not alone and that there are resources available to help you cope.

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Finding Happiness Without Closure Life can be tough sometimes and we all go through situations where we don’t get the closure we deserve. But, it’s important to remember that happiness is not defined by external circumstances. It’s a choice that we make every day, within ourselves. Finding happiness despite not having closure takes courage and inner strength, but it’s so worth it. Instead of dwelling on what we don’t have, let’s focus on what we do have and be grateful for it. Let’s choose to live in the present moment and find joy in the small things. Remember, happiness is not a destination, it’s a journey. And we are the ones who get to choose our path. So, let’s choose to be happy and spread positivity, no matter what life throws our way. #HappinessIsAVoice #ChooseHappiness #SpreadPositivity

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Finding Happiness Without Closure Life can be tough sometimes and we all go through situations where we don’t get the closure we deserve. But, it’s important to remember that happiness is not defined by external circumstances. It’s a choice that we make every day, within ourselves. Finding happiness despite not having closure takes courage and inner strength, but it’s so worth it. Instead of dwelling on what we don’t have, let’s focus on what we do have and be grateful for it. Let’s choose to live in the present moment and find joy in the small things. Remember, happiness is not a destination, it’s a journey. And we are the ones who get to choose our path. So, let’s choose to be happy and spread positivity, no matter what life throws our way. #HappinessIsAVoice #ChooseHappiness #SpreadPositivity
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This blog explores the importance of self-love and provides practical tips for developing a positive relationship with yourself. Learn how to celebrate your successes, speak kindly to yourself, and practice self-care to enhance your self-esteem and confidence. Tags: #SelfLove, #SelfCare, #PositiveThinking, #Confidence, #Happiness.

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This blog explores the importance of self-love and provides practical tips for developing a positive relationship with yourself. Learn how to celebrate your successes, speak kindly to yourself, and practice self-care to enhance your self-esteem and confidence. Tags: #SelfLove, #SelfCare, #PositiveThinking, #Confidence, #Happiness.
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Embracing Self-Love: A Journey of Acceptance and Growth.

Self-love is a journey of self-discovery, acceptance, and growth. It’s about learning to appreciate and cherish yourself, just as you are, with all your strengths, weaknesses, and quirks. When you love yourself, you develop a deep sense of security, confidence, and happiness that allows you to live life to the fullest.

However, for many of us, loving ourselves is not always an easy thing to do. Society often bombards us with messages that we are not good enough, and that we need to change to be accepted. We compare ourselves to others and focus on our flaws and weaknesses, rather than our strengths and achievements. These negative thoughts and feelings can leave us feeling worthless and defeated, making it even harder to love ourselves.

But the good news is, self-love is a skill that can be developed and strengthened with time and effort. Here are some practical tips to help you get started on your self-love journey:

Practice self-care: Taking care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being is an essential part of self-love. Whether it’s taking a relaxing bath, engaging in a favorite hobby, or just taking a walk in nature, find activities that make you feel good and do them regularly.

Surround yourself with positive people: The people you surround yourself with can have a huge impact on your self-esteem and confidence. Seek out supportive friends and family who encourage and uplift you, and try to limit time spent with negative or critical individuals.

Speak kindly to yourself: Our internal dialogue is powerful, and the things we tell ourselves can either uplift us or bring us down. Be mindful of the things you say to yourself, and replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations. Remind yourself of your strengths, achievements, and qualities that make you unique and special.

Celebrate your successes: It’s easy to focus on our failures and shortcomings, but it’s important to acknowledge and celebrate our successes, big or small. Keep a journal of your accomplishments, and look back at it when you need a confidence boost.

Accept your flaws: No one is perfect, and that’s okay. Instead of trying to hide or change your flaws, learn to accept and embrace them. They are a part of what makes you unique and special, and you should never apologize for being yourself.

Self-love is not a destination, it’s a lifelong journey. It takes time, patience, and effort, but the rewards are worth it. When you love yourself, you develop a deep sense of confidence, security, and happiness that allows you to face life’s challenges with courage and grace.

In conclusion, self-love is not about being selfish or narcissistic. It’s about developing a healthy, positive relationship with yourself, and recognizing your worth and value as a human being. So start small, take baby steps, and remember to be kind and compassionate to yourself. Your self-love journey is a journey worth taking!

Scotty

This blog explores the importance of self-love and provides practical tips for developing a positive relationship with yourself. Learn how to celebrate your successes, speak kindly to yourself, and practice self-care to enhance your self-esteem and confidence.

Tags: #SelfLove, #SelfCare, #PositiveThinking, #Confidence, #Happiness.

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Empaths Emotional Burnout Guide

Emotional burnout is a common problem faced by many empaths, individuals who are highly sensitive to the emotions of others. Empaths often take on the emotions of those around them, leading to an overwhelming feeling of exhaustion and stress. If left unaddressed, this can lead to chronic fatigue, depression, and other mental health problems. However, with the right strategies and tools, it is possible to overcome emotional burnout and lead a fulfilling life. Here are some tips for getting over emotional burnout as an empath.

Practice self-care: Empaths need to prioritize their own emotional and physical well-being. This means taking care of themselves by engaging in activities that bring them joy, such as exercise, reading, or spending time with friends. It’s also important to eat a healthy diet, get plenty of rest, and take time to relax and recharge

Set boundaries: Empaths often have difficulty saying “no” to others, but it’s important to set boundaries and avoid overextending themselves. This means not taking on more than they can handle, both in their personal and professional lives. It’s also important to learn to recognize and avoid toxic individuals who may be draining their energy

Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness is a powerful tool for reducing stress and managing emotions. This can be done through meditation, deep breathing, or simply taking time to focus on the present moment. Mindfulness helps to reduce anxiety and promote emotional balance, making it an effective tool for overcoming emotional burnout.

Seek support: Empaths often struggle to cope with their emotions on their own, so it’s important to seek support from friends, family, or a mental health professional. Talking to someone about their experiences can help them to process their emotions and find effective coping strategies

Practice emotional detachment: Emotional detachment is a technique that involves detaching oneself from other people’s emotions and focusing on their own. This can be done through visualization or affirmations, or simply by taking a step back from emotionally charged situations. Emotional detachment helps to reduce stress and increase emotional balance, making it an important tool for overcoming emotional burnout.

Limit exposure to negative media: Empaths are often sensitive to negative news and images, which can contribute to feelings of stress and anxiety. Limiting exposure to negative media, such as the news or social media, can help to reduce stress and promote emotional well-being.

Find balance: Empaths need to find a balance between caring for others and caring for themselves. This means setting healthy boundaries, engaging in self-care activities, and finding activities that bring them joy and balance

In conclusion, overcoming emotional burnout as an empath requires a commitment to self-care and setting boundaries. Empaths need to prioritize their own well-being, seek support from friends and family, and find healthy ways to manage their emotions. With the right tools and strategies, it is possible to overcome emotional burnout and lead a fulfilling life.

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Spirit Guide Meditation

Stepping into your Psychic and Mediumship abilities can be a daunting task, like cutting through thick foliage with a small knife. What makes your journey to truth easier? A Guide of course. Have you met your guides? Would you like to?

A question my students and clients ask me often is “How do I meet my Guides?” The answer is easy, the mode is easy, the discipline can be difficult at first, but I have a solution. Meditation is the key and the answer. Write down the question prior to Meditation; “What is your name, Guide?” That is your intention. Second, get comfortable, relax, and meditate. Whatever that is for you, music, sitting in silence, walking, running, whatever gets your brain to be silent and go to your Meditation state. I am a guided meditation kind of guy, it helps tremendously to help get into the mode of meditation. The last part is difficult, you must trust yourself. Whatever name, even if it is obscure or strange, that is given to you during meditation is your Guides name. When you are done meditating write your Guides name down. That’s how you address them and call them to you to speak.

You can have more than one Guide and probably do, so try this meditation several times, see who or what is on the other side guiding your journey through the thick brush of your Spiritual Journey. I have even gone as far as to ask each Guide what they do for me, how they help and when they step in to help. I suggest you do the same. Don’t be to surprised when you realize how many times they have helped you in life without you knowing it.

I hope this helps you get where you are going. As always I am here to help bring you to a new level in your quest for spiritual knowledge, giving you easy techniques that work for me.

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Whats Up Everyone!

Long time no chat. My absence from here, being able to write my thoughts and have a long form chain of words has been missed, mostly by me probably. I would like to say welcome to anyone who is new coming in, please feel free to hang out, feel welcome and safe and know that everything on this page is aimed at helping you learn through my journey.

Lately I was presented with a bit of a challenge, which drives me crazy really. I have never been good at meeting others expectations, hell, I can almost never meet my expectations. So when someone comes out of the woodwork with an alleged way to prove if “psychic and Mediumship abilities are real” it can be a real pain in the rear end. Especially when they are throwing $1,000.00 dollars around in an attempt to lure out folks like myself. But why…why present this way? There are far better ways and less aggressive ways to understand this ability. I’ve been a long time “skeptical medium” which means I am super hard on myself when presenting information during readings. If the information doesn’t come through in a very evidentiary way and I don’t make the connection necessary to unrefutably say I spoke to a deceased person on the other side who my client knew then I refund the session. Yeah, refund the full amount. The burden is on me to bring the information through, if it doesn’t happen then you get your money back. I don’t care if it was a three hour session and I failed, full reimbursement. It has been like that since I started and it is no different now. Has this happened to me? Yes. Twice. I remember feeling so down about it both times I felt like I was going to quit it all and be done. However both times, the next appointment with the next client, were absolutely amazing.

A better way to prove these abilities exist? Hmmm. Since mine came through in such a spontaneous way and very unexpectedly it just mean there is something happening in my brain or body and heck, maybe even Spirit that can be measured. Again, I like proof. I would have a group of Doctors, scientist and psychologists study me during readings. Hook me to machines measuring all my biometric stats, brain waives and so on. I’d have 4 types of readings set up and have all these professionals observe me during each.

I’d say a range of acceptable answers would need to be set. Each of us has unique perspectives and life experiences that can be interpreted differently. A panel would have to be fed the information for each test about the subject receiving the reading and each person from the panel would have to write their perspective of what they know about the subject, this would help develop a baseline of acceptable information given during the reading.

1. A simple photo reading, no human interaction. The Psychic or Medium looks at the photo and writes notes. When done the panel is handed the notes and they decide what is in an acceptable range of what is accurate.

2. In person 1 on 1 reading. No cards, no crystals ,nothing but pen and paper. Just the reader and sitter. Same parameters as the photo reading. Notes are written and the Psychic or Medium is allowed to conversate with the sitter in normal fashion of these types of readings.

3. A video phone reading, same rules as above.

4. A phone reading, no seeing each other with the same parameters as the other experiments.

When these are done and gone over if the percentage of correct information is given then it would be safe to say there are things science hasn’t gotten to yet. Of course this would have to be done with many Psychics and Mediums and different sitters in order to gather a large range of information, just like any properly conducted scientific research.

Of course this is a fantasy, as of right now because it feels as though main stream science would rather not understand this phenomenon and just write it off was woo woo nonsense. That’s my opinion, maybe there are folks in the scientific community who would like to tackle this. I hope that one day we can get to the bottom of this and for the record, I’m ok with this being debunked although it would make me wonder how I personally could have gotten so much correct over the years.

There will be more to this thought process coming soon, scientists and doctors I’ve read about or watched on YouTube who have ideas on the subject and I’d like to elaborate on their thoughts some more.

As always, thanks for reading. I hope this helps move the conversation forward in a positive manner with respect on both sides of the idea. Have a great day and remember to keep developing your gifts!

Scotty

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Planetary Conjunction

Today marks the day of the Planetary alignment of Jupiter and Saturn. A day that a “awakening” is supposed to happen shifting those of us who want it from 3D to 5D. I never really thought too much into things like the position of planets effecting me, however recently the energy is different. Seeing as I don’t see a reason to possibly miss an opportunity I included a guided meditation in this week’s podcast. You should check it out and let me know of you feel more awake afterwards.

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I’m my own Skeptic, thanks.

I’m my own Skeptic, thank you.

In my first official podcast (https://anchor.fm/scotty-the-nj-medium/episodes/The-Origin-Story-of-a-Psychic-Medium–From-an-ordinary-life-to-an-extraordinary-journey-emccvb)  I tell the story of how my Mediumship journey really started and I’m going to provide more anecdotes as the series continues about how Mediumship has come into my life and shaped it.

One thing that should be abundantly clear is that I am my own hardest critic and my own biggest skeptic. If something does not make sense in a very specific way during a reading I dismiss it on the spot. As a matter of fact, I write down my thoughts during readings and let anyone who wants to record the session. Why? Because it is imperative to me as a skeptic to show my work. If I cannot bring proof in a way that is tangabal than what is the point? I don’t need someone to say “I don’t believe in people like you” or “I will only believe you if you give me something about myself that no one else knows.” That sort of thing is a challenge and I’m not here to perform for you or “prove” to you that what I’m doing is genuine.

The proof is in the pudding and a picture is worth a thousand words. Time and time again I receive information from those who passed describing specific photographs of which I could not make up the circumstances or describe with the best of imaginations and be accurate. However it keeps happening. Without those pieces of proof I would have stopped doing this a long time ago. Why? Because I NEED THE VALIDATION AND PROOF ALSO.

This is a simple retort to all those who are so arguently against an afterlife or Mediums and Psychics. From my life, from my point of view, I did not seek this. I have a good job and do not need income from this to support my family or even for extras in life. I am blessed beyond what I could have asked for. I am a Medium who was gifted something amazing and I refuse to ignore it and ask “what if” later in life. I will continue to do this until the day, if it ever comes that there is no proof or validation in specific ways from those in the living world showing me the physical proof of what I am saying during readings is true.

I am my own worst critic and a bigger skeptic than those who attack me. That alone drives me to be better and better and push my gift to find the limits where I can reproduce every time at every session. Which I am close to, but I’m still sharpening this pencil and I will continue to for a very long time.  I am not here to provide proof to the skeptic, or myself, but to bring healing in beautiful messages from those on the other side of life. The awesome side effect is continuing showing that there is an afterlife, we retain our personalities and consciousness and we love to check in on our living loved ones after we cross.

I hope you all understand and most importantly know that whatever your opinion is, I respect it and I don’t challenge it. You are a unique person with your own values and thoughts. You are awesome and I appreciate you.
Scott

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Learn about my services here!
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Join the discussion on my  private Facebook page!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/848331228662198/

Want to see me on Inside Edition as I investigate Miss Fannys Paranormal Party House? Yeah you do! Click this link and check that amazing video out!
https://youtu.be/jQtl59o73TU

Click the link below to visit the Shanley Hotels web page to book an investigation!
Thehauntedshanleyhotel.com
Visit the PARS Team YouTube and subscribe!
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVROGd5sr8arY7e9eaeBBcg

Here are a few links to my favorite meditation videos!
https://youtu.be/Ap3_9Itmg20
https://youtu.be/jX6kn9_U8qk
https://youtu.be/NiMb8cenHpk

Music and sound provided by
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Need gear for your investigation? Visit my affiliate link below!
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Thank you for your continued support!
Scott

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