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Let messages in through your imagination!

Having trouble listening to Spirit? I can help you get those Spiritual Hearing Aids in!

The first thing we have to ask ourselves is “Do I have an open mind?” If the answer is “Yes!” with enthusiasm then let’s continue.

Can you close your eyes for a moment? Think about your dream get away. Maybe sandy beaches with the smell of suntan lotion in the air and a warm breeze gently brushing your cheeks. Perhaps it’s a mountain get away, cool foggy mornings with a hot cup of java and a view that looks over valleys into three counties over.

Did you picture either of those or something a little different? Go back to that place, close your eyes and imagine the details of things you would want to experience there. Now once you get there invite a friend. Let’s make it someone who has passed and you miss them.

Got them there? Are they wearing a favorite ensemble? How do they smell? Did they bring along something fun with them they did here in life? Maybe they just have a great big hug for you!

Now that you can see them in your dream vacation spot ask them how they are. I’m telling you this is where it gets tricky, but we are just using our imagination so that’s not a big deal. When you say to them “Hey, how are ya?” Do they answer? What did they say? I bet they said they were doing great but said it exactly how you would have expected them to!

Tell them about your day or life or kids or whatever you would have spoken to them about had they been here right next to you. When you get replies I want you to remember them! After you conversation is done take a moment to recall what was said, how it made you feel and how you feel right now.

Ok, write it down.

If you have done all that, then you have completed your first step of Spirit communication. Just because “that’s what they would have said and I know that” phrase is rolling through your head doesn’t mean it wasn’t them. Once you are comfortable speaking to those you love branch out with a friend and see how you do with one of their loved ones! That’s it! Good luck and I hope Spirit fills you with love, joy and confidence!

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New Year New Beginnings!

Hey everyone!

Nice to see you all out there! Are you ready for some new and amazing things in 2019? I know I am! How are we starting it out? Well a little early to tell you the truth. I already started my vlog for 2019. Episode 1 is already up on YouTube. Click the link below to check out out, then lets talk about some of the new things happening around here and how I plan on helping you with your Mediumship and Psychic development.

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I hope you had fun checking that out. Now that you have subscribed to my YouTube channel you can see when I upload new content including special talks that integrate with the blogs I write here. That means you can read the material and have some audio and visual aid to help you along.

We are going to go on a video adventure together in 2019. I’ll be chronicling mostly all that I’m doing, including events, reading and my home life. I’ll be writing special lessons to teach you all how to unlock your potential Psychic abilities!

I’ll be showing you how to apply your gifts in a practical manner that you can incorporate in your every day life. I’ll also be giving special lessons on how to start a small business like I have done and how to make it successful!

It’s all about learning and teaching and accelerating through life becoming better than we were yesterday! Lets make 2019 the best year yet!

Thanks for coming on this journey with me, I’m super excited to make new memories with you all! Let’s do readings, let’s make content and let’s have fun!

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Speak your truth and be good to others!

I feel as though we shouldn’t have to go past the title of today’s blog. We of course will and it won’t be preachy, I promise.

As I’ve gone through life my opinions have changed and most certainly my way of conveying those ideas has morphed. When I was young I was outspoken and whatever I said was right and anyone who disagreed with me was clearly wrong. I was in a band, I wrote lyrics about my life and any chance I got would scream them at the top of my lungs. I’m not a famous rock star so that didn’t really work out, it just wasn’t my path. I still love to create music by the way, it is a great stress relief. So the music thing was my platform and the lyrics were my truth, at the time.

A very embarrassing photo of my much younger goofball self. Clearly I was having a great time though.

I learned lots from those days of playing , writing and collaborating with others. I learned that some people shared the same truths as me and many had different ideas that didn’t match my own. Often I look back and am upset that I didn’t have the guts to listen to their opinions. What gems did I miss out on? For a second let’s think about “truth.” What we believe to be fact. There are scientific truths, we breath oxygen and the sky is blue and science explains why. How about a truth that isn’t scientific (yet)? We as humans have the capability to speak to the dead and far beyond that dimension if we open to it. What!?

Yeah, that’s my truth and it’s expanding every day. If I went back to 2002 and told 20 year old me that to my face, I would get mocked, called a hippy and maybe thrown back in the time machine I came out of. 20 year old me wasn’t ready for the truth that I have found now. Now, let’s pretend there are other people out there of all ages genders and race who aren’t ready for that truth. Wait, we don’t have to pretend, that’s a real fact. It’s cool though, they don’t have to adhere to my truth. I don’t even try to explain it to them, I am certainly not looking for confrontation. Even though I personally have been goaded into arguments many times before, I now know through time and experience it doesn’t move the conversation forward. They don’t have the same perspective I do so how could they understand this truth?

Now, just because we don’t believe the same thing doesn’t mean we have to be mean to each other. Actually I find that when people don’t understand where I am coming from I will work harder to being depth into the Spiritual Gift I have. My platform changed since the days of a dim lit stage and a sweet Fender Jag-Stang guitar. I now have this, the internet, my blog and Facebook and Instagram. Amazing places for like minded people to meet and share ideas. I don’t have to shout or be offensively loud to get my point across. I just type or make a video. It’s amazing. The best part? If someone comes to be a troll or a genuine pain in the neck I can just remove them. I don’t have to be mean or “stoop to their level.” (Hmmm matching thier low vibration?) I simply hit a button and they are ignored. Luckily I haven’t really dealt with it much. People tend to find me because they need peace and kind words that are coming from a genuine place.

Let me tell you, I have never and will never say I am perfect or don’t judge. I’m not going to put that untruth out there. I am a human and I make decisions on judgment of people all the time. It’s not a trait I love, especially when it is skin deep. The thing I have learned however is to keep it to myself whether I am in front of them or over the internet. My opinion of someone else does not matter. It is not a truth. Just like when someone speaks on me and they do not know me. They are not speaking a truth, they are just judging on their perspective and values. We can disagree on most things and still get along, I try to implement that as often as I can.

I love to say “good morning” and “thank you” and “your welcome.” Not in a corny cheeseball way. In a genuine respectful way. Connect with others and be genuine. Since I have been implementing that thought. That very intention my Spirit has grown and the negative has stopped flowing my way in a very noticeable volume. Life is becoming better.

For your future growth as a person as a Soul and perhaps as a Medium or Psychic Speak your truth. Speak it proudly. When others look to disagree let them. Do not engage with them. They are just behind your Spiritual growth, like 20 year old me. I didn’t know any better. Just smile at them and thank your higher self and whomever on the other side for your perspective and insight. You are blessed. Life is good, Spirit is good and you can infect others with your gestures and kindness that stem from your Spiritual Truth.

I hope that you enjoyed this, I certainly loved writing it. I know that you will understand this and take the message and run with it. That’s the intent. Have a great day and I look forward to seeing you on my Facebook page and on Instagram @scottythenjmedium

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Essential Oils and Spirit

Hey there! Have you joined in the craze of essential oils yet? If not I would say it’s a good time to. Let me tell you about how much more powerful my meditation is when I use essential oils. Super powerful!

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Folks who have sat with me 1 on 1 have certainly seen me apply liberal amounts of peppermint essential oil. Like bathing in it, well maybe not that much but alot. The peppermint essential oil is great for opening up your physical sinus and also helps excite the psychic senses. So prior to every reading I use my peppermint oil. What’s the most important parts of meditation? Breathing and focus. So peppermint oil.

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When its time to calm down I use cinnamon because it reminds me of Christmas time and makes me feel warm and calm. If you are having a bad day that would also be a good time to apply cinnamon. If you don’t want to apply the oil directly to your skin you can put them in a diffuser for your home or onto a bracelet or necklace specially designed to hold the scent of the oil.

What do I like to use during meditation? Lavender oil for me! It helps me relax and calm myself and brings me into a deep meditative state. I have the best and most vivid experiences when I use a small amount of lavender oil during meditation. It could be a different oil for you, so you’ll have to try a few.

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Is there some science behind this scented oil stuff? Yup!

Your sense of smell is your only cranial nerve, which means it’s the only one hooked up to your brain directly. It controls your eye movement and even your hearing at times. It has even been reported that a human can smell fear! Imagine that? Your nose is powerful enough to smell fear, so imagine if you are purposely looking for smells to activate your spiritual self. The possibilities are endless.

It is interesting to me that that the center of smell is behind the 3rd eye.

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Soul Contracts

Why? Why? Why? The beginning of so many questions.

“Why am I the last one?”

“Why did they leave me?”

“Why am I still here?”

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I hear these and questions like them often, especially during readings. We all would like answers and we would like them spelled out neatly for us in black and white. Here on Earth I don’t think we will ever have access to that information but beyond here, where we come from and where we go there are surely filing cabinets full of contracts, “Soul Contracts.”

What do I mean when I say Soul Contract? Well I mean the agreement between souls prior to coming to Earth to live life. We make deals with each other to carry out specific errands, tasks and events in one another’s lives before we ever meet here on the physical plane.

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Why? You ask. Well it puts into motion that we experience things that we are supposed to in a guaranteed timely fashion. What are some examples? Your parents agreed to bring you into their lives, your best friend agreed to meet you and be your best friend. Your first love agreed to meet you and then betray you. Your eighth grade math teacher agreed to be strict with you so that you would learn.

Many Souls you’ve met have made agreements with you in the Soul Contract. Even those who you’ve loved and they have passed on, seemingly leaving you behind alone. You made a pact with them and told them it was ok to do this. Your soul needed to learn a lesson and they agreed to help you.

Where are you getting this Scott?

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Good question. As I am always deeply connecting with my own Guides I receive gifts of wisdom from them, I once heard them tell me about the notion of a Soul Contract and delved into meditations about what that was. I got my answers which I explained to you above. These contracts can be read by those who can read the “Akashic Records.” These are simply the story of our Souls kept as text in a cosmic filing cabinet. We will talk about that another time.

So the next time you find yourself wondering why relationships are the way they are in your life remember that you agreed to it, most likely to teach you something, the most important part of this journey, to learn. What are your relationships teaching you here on Earth? Who has come and gone, what did they bring to your life, what did they take away?

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Thanks so much for all the love! I look forward to hearing from you soon!

Scotty

Psychic Armor

Let’s talk about beefing up your defenses, against the living and the dead.

If you are a human being chances are you are affected by a million types of energy every day. Some electronic, some solar, some human and some Spirit. It can be a huge drain on your mind, body and soul. I have seen the effects range from irritability to physical sickness manifest due to the bombardment of every day energy.

Let’s list some steps to help back off the human energy right down to the lowest vibrations out there, demons. Of course all things take practice so don’t go out there after trying these simple steps a few times and think you are going to be safe fighting the darkness alone. Stay safe, follow these steps and lead a better life with cleaner energy.

1. Meditate- You can’t identify your own energy and what is contaminating it without meditation. If you read this blog often you know I’m a meditation hound. I’ll beat this dead horse and its Spirit too. If you plan to separate foreign energy away from your own you’ll have to identify your energy first. This is done during meditation and becoming self aware. Once you know what’s yours and what isn’t move to step 2.

2. Salt shower/bath- Don’t underestimate how powerful the table salt can be. Used for centuries by almost every religion salt is the ultimate energy cleanser. Think about the energy that you want gone and lather up with your favorite body wash and a few tablespoons of salt. You can use table salt if you have it on hand or something fancier if you like. It all works about the same. Once you are so fresh so clean move to step 3!

3. Surround yourself- Get a photograph of yourself and surround it in your favorite color pen, marker, string or ribbon. Pick several colors to really bring on the protection! There is no wrong that can be done here, as you are surrounding yourself in color make sure to remember that this is a protection barrier! Nothing bad can come in and influence you in your bubble, only good positive vibes are allowed in. Set your intention and when things start to affect you remember to be aware of them, visualize your barrier and kick low vibrations to the curb!

Once you’ve done that you are all set! Easy right? Remember to repeat steps 1 and 2 often and keep your photo where you can see it. Change the colors up every so often and see what kinds of new experiences you have after!

I hope you enjoyed this little post, stay safe out there and remember to MEDITATE!

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Seeing clearly with your meditation goggles.

“When I close my eyes I see places and faces, I’m unfamiliar with both but seem to have a connection with them.”

-Many people I speak with

I used to be surprised when I’d be doing a reading and people would clue me into their own natural ability to connect with Spirit or beyond. As far as I knew when I first started doing this there weren’t that many gifted Mediums or Psychics. How would I know otherwise? I laugh now because so many have stepped forward and told me. It makes sense to me, we all have a level of this gift one way or another. Are we all the best at it? Nope. I’m not a strong swimmer but I float pretty well. Can I become a better swimmer. Yup! With practice and coaching and a willingness to learn.

I am constantly learning and taking what I learn and bringing it here. One thing I’ve been learning alot about the last few months is how many people are thirsty for this knowledge. How can they improve, who can guide them? What are the “proper” steps to take? Wow, who knows! I personally have taken a little bit from everyone I’ve learned from and made it my own. I think that’s just human. What works for one doesn’t work for everyone. What is interesting is how many experience the same things when their Third Eye begins to open. Unfamiliar places and faces that seem to hold significance to them. That’s how it started for me and it was a cloudy unclear mess. Making sense of this gift is a bit of a burden at first, until the clarity comes. Then it is a true gift with many rewards.

If this is your first time here go back and start from the beginning or go from here. Nothing is changing. Opening your intuition begins withmeditations. Quiet your mind, create a comfortable place in your imagination to relax in. Place yourself at ease with breathing and grounding. Look back for tips on medications, mostly I recommend quiet music and a comfy spot to sit in for about 15 minutes.

Once you mediate and PRACTICE it for several days you will get better, your clarity will improve. It’s like swimming under water without goggles and then putting on a pair. You have seen shapes and colors but everything was out of focus. Now with your meditation goggles it’s all clear and you can see the vividness of the Spirit and all things around you.

Your intuition will guide you to what is important as long as you operate without hesitation or doubt. Clear your mind, breath, know yourself and become clear with practice.

I use this technique to speak with the deceased and to do psychic readings. There is no real secret except I practice and I believe what am experiencing. You do the same. Maybe easier said than done but I know you can do it!

Here is your intention. Write it down.

“I will see more clearly today than yesterday.”

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What is in this for YOU?

When I take my time and stop for a little bit I reflect heavily on what I’m doing and what is in it for me. What am I gaining from giving away the information I’ve learned about Mediumship, Psychic gifts and all things “mystical?” Who is benefitting from this blog? Who am I really doing this for?

It’s a good question, one I’d like you to take a moment and ask yourself as well. I have been doing readings more and more steadily in the last few months and as a result my blog content has gone down, sorry about that. What has happened also though is I’m finding more and more people with gifts who need a place to start learning about them. Of course I direct them here and tell them to start reading from blog one and then think about how once they read through to the most current blog that they may be left hanging. I certainly don’t want to leave anyone hanging, especially if they are finding this site useful and easy to understand. With that said I will be picking up some new things to write about in regards to developing your own gifts. Now with that I ask “Who are you developing your gifts for and why?”

I started developing my own gifts pretty much out of instinct. I didn’t really have a motive other than I felt it needed to happen. Once I started to really dive in and understand who I was and how each of my own gifts worked I wanted to know more, not only did I want to know more but I wanted to test myself as myouruch as possible.

I started doing readings for friends and close family and it was a rush to say the least, when I would speak on behalf of a deceased person to the living. Describing an old apartment or fond memory they had, telling the living that the departed family member was alright and at peace became comforting to me. In the moment it was anyway, there was certainly a strain at home and there always will be. That’s with anything we dedicate time to, I want you to remember that for anything you apply yourself to. At first my wife thought it was a novelty or something I probably wouldn’t pursue too heavily, I have many interests and they all fizzle out and come back in waves.

Mediumship however never stopped being on my mind, it grew, like a small sapling into what is now a maturing tree. I consumed books and books, videos and podcasts and anything I could find for free on the Internet. Then something happened. I hit a wall. I grew as far as I felt I could. I kept reading the same things over and over, now what?

I decided I would take my perspective and knowledge and write a blog. Then the blog needed exposure so I started an Instagram and Facebook page for it. Then time went on, people booked me for readings and gave me glowing reviews, passed my cards along to family and friends. My Gift that was my passion grew into a small business. Well known people in the business of Psychics and Mediums have taken notice of me, even well known Paranormal Investigators ask my opinion on some of their cases. To say I’m humbled by all of that would be an understatement.

I recently became so overwhelmed with people asking for readings that I asked my wife to be the schedule keeper, a big step for me since I had been managing it myself for so long. Not only a big step for me though, a big one for her as well. Shellie, my wife takes care of our 2 young children, the house, the bills, the cooking and laundry and manages me now. My gift has turned into another job for someone else, thank goodness she took the position because I was drowning in schedule hell.

I write the blog for you. I want you to develop your gifts, whatever they may be. I want you to be as good as you can be with as much free information as you can get. That’s what I wanted for myself as well. I have that and so much more. Now, ask yourself “What is in this for YOU?”

What are you going to do with your gift once you have developed it into something that you can do on demand? Are you going to keep it to yourself? Are you going to tell friends? Will you make a business out of it? That’s all up to you. I just think about how I started doing this with no intention of being where I am and wonder what others are doing with the gift they have.

I’ll leave this session with this:

Do not have fear of the unknown. Embrace your Gifts, be positive and do this for you!

Scott

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Best Intentions

Intention, what is yours? If you have been following me for any time at all you would know that my intention is to teach as much as possible without charging anybody for one blog session. As long as you’ve been coming to my website I have always said that I have been trying to provide a service that I wish was available to me. My question for you now is what are you doing to pay it forward to others? Have you taken some of my advice and gone to other people like us and spread the knowledge? Have you tried to reach out for others with your gift that you have been developing? Have you tried to do some readings for the best interest of other people?

If you have not yet I would like for you to take a minute and think about how you can do something nice for somebody else. The most important part of this is not thinking about what you’re going to do but actually just doing something. The best intentions sometimes go unfulfilled. Execution is 100% the end goal. If you have been writing nice things down in your book to do for other people but have not done one of them then you truly haven’t done anything yet at all. Today, the day that you are reading this I want you to take one thing and do it for somebody else. It doesn’t have to be psychic related it could just be buying someone a coffee, picking someone else’s kids up from school for them, doing the laundry or cooking dinner. The sky is the limit and the ball is in your court.

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Today’s the day that you are going to do something good for somebody else and you will not expect anything back in return. It is my belief that once you start doing good for other people the good that you will feel inside will motivate you to do more and once that feeling wells up inside of you enough the universe will take notice and start returning back to you what you have put out. Of course this is an old notion called karma but sometimes we need a real life day today example of how to get started. So today you were going to get started.

When you are done reading this please just hit the share button copy it and paste it to whatever social media you belong to and let’s get some really nice things going for everybody. Again I don’t make anything off of this except for the fact that I know I am trying to put the good out there in the universe for everybody to share in. I would love to see this shared so many times that you come back to me, and you all have great stories to tell me about all of the good that you have done for other people. Then you can tell your story about how you have been rewarded.

Scott