I feel as though we shouldn’t have to go past the title of today’s blog. We of course will and it won’t be preachy, I promise.
As I’ve gone through life my opinions have changed and most certainly my way of conveying those ideas has morphed. When I was young I was outspoken and whatever I said was right and anyone who disagreed with me was clearly wrong. I was in a band, I wrote lyrics about my life and any chance I got would scream them at the top of my lungs. I’m not a famous rock star so that didn’t really work out, it just wasn’t my path. I still love to create music by the way, it is a great stress relief. So the music thing was my platform and the lyrics were my truth, at the time.
A very embarrassing photo of my much younger goofball self. Clearly I was having a great time though.
I learned lots from those days of playing , writing and collaborating with others. I learned that some people shared the same truths as me and many had different ideas that didn’t match my own. Often I look back and am upset that I didn’t have the guts to listen to their opinions. What gems did I miss out on? For a second let’s think about “truth.” What we believe to be fact. There are scientific truths, we breath oxygen and the sky is blue and science explains why. How about a truth that isn’t scientific (yet)? We as humans have the capability to speak to the dead and far beyond that dimension if we open to it. What!?
Yeah, that’s my truth and it’s expanding every day. If I went back to 2002 and told 20 year old me that to my face, I would get mocked, called a hippy and maybe thrown back in the time machine I came out of. 20 year old me wasn’t ready for the truth that I have found now. Now, let’s pretend there are other people out there of all ages genders and race who aren’t ready for that truth. Wait, we don’t have to pretend, that’s a real fact. It’s cool though, they don’t have to adhere to my truth. I don’t even try to explain it to them, I am certainly not looking for confrontation. Even though I personally have been goaded into arguments many times before, I now know through time and experience it doesn’t move the conversation forward. They don’t have the same perspective I do so how could they understand this truth?
Now, just because we don’t believe the same thing doesn’t mean we have to be mean to each other. Actually I find that when people don’t understand where I am coming from I will work harder to being depth into the Spiritual Gift I have. My platform changed since the days of a dim lit stage and a sweet Fender Jag-Stang guitar. I now have this, the internet, my blog and Facebook and Instagram. Amazing places for like minded people to meet and share ideas. I don’t have to shout or be offensively loud to get my point across. I just type or make a video. It’s amazing. The best part? If someone comes to be a troll or a genuine pain in the neck I can just remove them. I don’t have to be mean or “stoop to their level.” (Hmmm matching thier low vibration?) I simply hit a button and they are ignored. Luckily I haven’t really dealt with it much. People tend to find me because they need peace and kind words that are coming from a genuine place.
Let me tell you, I have never and will never say I am perfect or don’t judge. I’m not going to put that untruth out there. I am a human and I make decisions on judgment of people all the time. It’s not a trait I love, especially when it is skin deep. The thing I have learned however is to keep it to myself whether I am in front of them or over the internet. My opinion of someone else does not matter. It is not a truth. Just like when someone speaks on me and they do not know me. They are not speaking a truth, they are just judging on their perspective and values. We can disagree on most things and still get along, I try to implement that as often as I can.
I love to say “good morning” and “thank you” and “your welcome.” Not in a corny cheeseball way. In a genuine respectful way. Connect with others and be genuine. Since I have been implementing that thought. That very intention my Spirit has grown and the negative has stopped flowing my way in a very noticeable volume. Life is becoming better.
For your future growth as a person as a Soul and perhaps as a Medium or Psychic Speak your truth. Speak it proudly. When others look to disagree let them. Do not engage with them. They are just behind your Spiritual growth, like 20 year old me. I didn’t know any better. Just smile at them and thank your higher self and whomever on the other side for your perspective and insight. You are blessed. Life is good, Spirit is good and you can infect others with your gestures and kindness that stem from your Spiritual Truth.
I hope that you enjoyed this, I certainly loved writing it. I know that you will understand this and take the message and run with it. That’s the intent. Have a great day and I look forward to seeing you on my Facebook page and on Instagram @scottythenjmedium
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