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Positive Momentum

If you find yourself achieving new goals and start to get freaked out because you aren’t used to the success Don’t back off!

What does that mean? Well personally when things start to go well I get a little sinical. Like where is the backlash of crap that’s gonna come with the good? I don’t back off but I also always am looking over my shoulder for the kick in the pants. With all new adventures and new endeavours there are going to be growing pains. There will be learning and set backs and things you don’t want to deal with. It happens to me all the time.

From the time I started developing my Mediumship, to public readings and publishing this blog there have been set backs and some of them are more than inconvenient. Some of them outright put my life in a tailspin. I feel like the character in a movie who pulls the airplane up right before tragedy strikes. That’s a real feeling. When you start to feel that way don’t let go of the controls, hold on! The only way to regain control and move forward is to grip tight and handle the issues.

No matter what life throws at you from personal to professional to spiritual you will not grow if you are continuously crashing when things get turbulent. (I think I’m using plane speak because I’ve been flying alot the last month.) The reason to endure the hard stuff? Growth! If you aren’t challenged and meeting them and failing at them you aren’t growing. What’s my failure point right now? Well personally it’s my weight. I have to lose some, it’s a problem for me. I keep trying. I haven’t given up yet. I also have a huge time management problem. I am learning by unfortunately missing deadlines and piling on more than I can handle at once. Without doing that though I won’t know my limit. I hope that if i keep overloading myself that I will get used to the work and adapt and get better if not, I’ll crash but I’ll crash holding on.

After I do crash I always have to look around and see what’s left. What went wrong and how can I get up again and move forward. DO YOU DO THAT?

It seems to me that a great time to learn is on the job, you can read here about developing your abilities but you won’t develop until you go out on a limb and push yourself. What’s holding you back? The same thing that held me back, being afraid of failing. That’s over. If you are coming here and reading and getting your head right to deal with and make your Spiritual Gifts stronger than let’s do it.

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Here’s some homework. Find a friend. Read for them. Psychic or Medium or a blend and just put it all out there. When that’s done send me a message on Facebook and tell me how it went. I want to know! I’m looking forward to you hearing about what you excelled at and what you didn’t. What information can I give you to help you along? What other problems do you have that you need a tool to fix? That’s why this blog is here.

Message me on Facebook with your reading outcomes and I’ll see you next time.

Scotty

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Memes, where were we before they existed?

Welcome Back!

It’s been a while right? Yes. Yes it has.

Well not to worry. I didn’t go anywhere, well I did but not away for good. I was on a bit of a break. I’ve been learning new things and growing, personally, creatively and in terms of my business through psychic and mediumship. My own gift has gotten stronger and my intuition has led me in some new directions.

Let’s talk about you for a moment…

What have you been up to? Have you been developing? Have you gotten to the point of doing readings for yourself or others? Have you gotten over the fear of being wrong? I’m hoping all of the above is true for you!

Let me see, what can I tell you that’s new? Something to help you out and develop a bit. Oh I know!

When you are meditating or doing an active reading and the information is flying fast and furious through your mind and out into the world and things aren’t making sense, WRITE IT DOWN!

The last few months I have been chiseling away at readings with clients, individual readings, group readings, live videos you name it I’m into it. I am doing readings so much that information is running into each other. For instance I have had readings on a Tuesday and some of the info was way off but the next day at another reading I found the information was a complete match. The important part about this misplaced information is that I wrote it down and was able to show the second client that I had indeed seen more about their life or their deceased loved ones life.

If I hadn’t written it down I sure would not have been able to prove that I had already had pertinent information to share. That helps you and your client validate the reading. With that being said: when things aren’t making sense YOU AREN’T WRONG!

You are most likely just early with the info. So instead of getting all bummed out about being wrong and giving up on your current reading just write the info down and move on. Do not let random info that doesn’t make sense now trip you up!

You got this! 😁😁😁😁

So anyway. Besides readings I have been traveling a little. I went to New Hampshire with the family. Then recently South Carolina and Savannah Georgia. They all have great and different feelings about them. The East Coast has such old vibes it’s great to travel up and down it.

I guess that’s it for now.

Make sure to WRITE EVERYTHING DOWN AND DON’T DOUBT YOURSELF!

Leave a comment, what have you been up to and what would you like me to write about next?

Scott

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Soul Contracts

Why? Why? Why? The beginning of so many questions.

“Why am I the last one?”

“Why did they leave me?”

“Why am I still here?”

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I hear these and questions like them often, especially during readings. We all would like answers and we would like them spelled out neatly for us in black and white. Here on Earth I don’t think we will ever have access to that information but beyond here, where we come from and where we go there are surely filing cabinets full of contracts, “Soul Contracts.”

What do I mean when I say Soul Contract? Well I mean the agreement between souls prior to coming to Earth to live life. We make deals with each other to carry out specific errands, tasks and events in one another’s lives before we ever meet here on the physical plane.

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Why? You ask. Well it puts into motion that we experience things that we are supposed to in a guaranteed timely fashion. What are some examples? Your parents agreed to bring you into their lives, your best friend agreed to meet you and be your best friend. Your first love agreed to meet you and then betray you. Your eighth grade math teacher agreed to be strict with you so that you would learn.

Many Souls you’ve met have made agreements with you in the Soul Contract. Even those who you’ve loved and they have passed on, seemingly leaving you behind alone. You made a pact with them and told them it was ok to do this. Your soul needed to learn a lesson and they agreed to help you.

Where are you getting this Scott?

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Good question. As I am always deeply connecting with my own Guides I receive gifts of wisdom from them, I once heard them tell me about the notion of a Soul Contract and delved into meditations about what that was. I got my answers which I explained to you above. These contracts can be read by those who can read the “Akashic Records.” These are simply the story of our Souls kept as text in a cosmic filing cabinet. We will talk about that another time.

So the next time you find yourself wondering why relationships are the way they are in your life remember that you agreed to it, most likely to teach you something, the most important part of this journey, to learn. What are your relationships teaching you here on Earth? Who has come and gone, what did they bring to your life, what did they take away?

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I hope I am fulfilling my Soul Contract with many of you. If you like my blog please subscribe, leave a like. If you’d like to hear more from me please visit me on Facebook and Instagram.

Thanks so much for all the love! I look forward to hearing from you soon!

Scotty

Take Notes, show your work.

Hey everyone!

So, do you take notes when you are meditating or doing a reading? I do. It’s my signature move. Lol well it’s at least the way I keep track of what my train of thought is.

I recently started keeping “scrap” paper during readings, it has come in handy every time! Normally what I do is write everything down that comes in on the note paper in front of me, for the client I’m with at the time. Many times things dont make sense and the information is lost when the client takes the notes with them.

Sometimes what will happen is later that day or a few days later I’ll have another client and do a reading with them and I’ll feel like something is missing or I’m missing something, to find out during the reading I’ve already received the info I needed prior to sitting with this client! It’s so frustrating!

I just said that! Wait I drew a picture of that exact thing yesterday!

Then I wouldn’t have a way to back it up. Lol come on! Well I decided from now on (A few days ago) that I’m keeping specific notes on important details so I can show clients that the information was so complete that I had received it prior to them arriving.

Here are some examples of when this has happened:

I did a reading and drew a banjo and a broken mantel clock. The client didn’t know what that would mean.

Several days later I went to do a group reading at a clients home, as soon as I walked in the door there was banjo. When I took my seat on the couch there was a broken mantel clock on the table next to me.

I recently sat down with a client at her home at the beginning of a party and gave her a name, and a very specific medical issue and means of treatment. The client stated she didn’t know the name or the medical things the Spirit was conveying. The Spirit said to me “I’m going to be here a while.”

I wrote everything down on my scrap paper, the name the ailment and the words he said to me about waiting. I did 4 readings and then the final person came in. She sat down and I said hello “Jill.” I stopped, “Did you tell me your name?” She confirmed that she hadn’t. I started the reading and a man told me about his stomach issues and Jill told me oh that’s because of this specific medical issue, I stopped dead in my tracks. “I wrote that down prior to you coming in here!” I had my scrap paper and showed her. From there the reading continued and it was fantastic.

I wanted to tell that story to illustrate the importance of two things, trust everything that you hear, see, feel and “know.” Also, write it all down and make sure to remember as much as you can. To be clear, don’t try to make things fit where they clearly don’t belong. Only apply the information when it is very specific.

I hope you can use this in your meditation and readings!

Keep practicing and remember to visit me on Facebook and Instagram!

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Scotty

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Tell me your ghost story!

I get to share all my stories all the time. Now it’s your turn. I’m not asking much, shoot me an email or comment right here. Tell me your ghost story or freaky paranormal occurrence.

I love to get a bit freaked out and could use a good scare. After you tell me your story check out my Instagram TV for my latest video and my own creepy ghost story.

I’m learning alot about making little videos and using the camera to convey what’s on my mind. It’s working out well, check out this small clip and then get to writing! I’m looking forward to your stories!

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Develop Psychic Abilities, faster.

Let’s be clear, there are no shortcuts. However there are certain practices that can help you improve your Psychic and intuitive skills. I’m going to give you some pointers and hope you use them!

1. Ask friends to do photo readings of their relatives. What does that mean? Ask a trusted friend for a photo of a relative (living or deceased) and ask them if you can try to pick up traits about the person in the photo that you could not possibly know. For example, the persons favorite music, the color house they lived in, ailments, middle name and so on. Doing this with a trusted friend will help build confidence by verification. Your friend will be gentle with you when you are incorrect and should be able to verify the information about the person in the photo when you are correct.

2. Sit with a friend or relative. Ask them the name of someone they know (living or deceased) and see how many things you can pick up on someone based solely on a name. This is similar to the photo reading exercise but with less of a safety net. With no photo to aid you there is only you and the person you are sitting with. The person you are sitting with should pick a person they can verify information about. Write down everything that comes to mind, you never know what can be verified later.

In the photo below I told my client I saw her father in a brown suit with a yellow shirt. I did not have a photo to read, she sent this to me several days later. My handwriting from the reading is attached.

3. Sit down with a pen and paper, take a few deep breaths and let your mind go to ease. (I hope you’ve been meditating.) When you are quiet, begin to let information flow, what do you see, hear, smell or feel? Write everything down, no matter how silly or insignificant it may seem. After you are satisfied that you’ve written down enough go on with your day. Keep the paper with you that you’ve written on. During the next several days check off things you’ve written down on the paper. Mark them as significant, mundane or extraordinary. See how many times you come across something you wrote down that the odds of being there and happening are astronomical. I think you’ll be surprised at how much you pick up, even at first.

The key to these 3 exercises is to let go of your fears and insecurity. Once you tell yourself it’s ok to be wrong you will be ready to really grow your abilities.

Make sure you mediate and practice these three basic exercises often. The more you do them the more accurate you will become!

Let me know what you think of these exercises and leave a comment.

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Seeing clearly with your meditation goggles.

“When I close my eyes I see places and faces, I’m unfamiliar with both but seem to have a connection with them.”

-Many people I speak with

I used to be surprised when I’d be doing a reading and people would clue me into their own natural ability to connect with Spirit or beyond. As far as I knew when I first started doing this there weren’t that many gifted Mediums or Psychics. How would I know otherwise? I laugh now because so many have stepped forward and told me. It makes sense to me, we all have a level of this gift one way or another. Are we all the best at it? Nope. I’m not a strong swimmer but I float pretty well. Can I become a better swimmer. Yup! With practice and coaching and a willingness to learn.

I am constantly learning and taking what I learn and bringing it here. One thing I’ve been learning alot about the last few months is how many people are thirsty for this knowledge. How can they improve, who can guide them? What are the “proper” steps to take? Wow, who knows! I personally have taken a little bit from everyone I’ve learned from and made it my own. I think that’s just human. What works for one doesn’t work for everyone. What is interesting is how many experience the same things when their Third Eye begins to open. Unfamiliar places and faces that seem to hold significance to them. That’s how it started for me and it was a cloudy unclear mess. Making sense of this gift is a bit of a burden at first, until the clarity comes. Then it is a true gift with many rewards.

If this is your first time here go back and start from the beginning or go from here. Nothing is changing. Opening your intuition begins withmeditations. Quiet your mind, create a comfortable place in your imagination to relax in. Place yourself at ease with breathing and grounding. Look back for tips on medications, mostly I recommend quiet music and a comfy spot to sit in for about 15 minutes.

Once you mediate and PRACTICE it for several days you will get better, your clarity will improve. It’s like swimming under water without goggles and then putting on a pair. You have seen shapes and colors but everything was out of focus. Now with your meditation goggles it’s all clear and you can see the vividness of the Spirit and all things around you.

Your intuition will guide you to what is important as long as you operate without hesitation or doubt. Clear your mind, breath, know yourself and become clear with practice.

I use this technique to speak with the deceased and to do psychic readings. There is no real secret except I practice and I believe what am experiencing. You do the same. Maybe easier said than done but I know you can do it!

Here is your intention. Write it down.

“I will see more clearly today than yesterday.”

I hope you are all doing well with your development! Questions? Please feel free to email me! Want to join my live Friday night videos on Facebook? Click any picture in the blog and it will take you there!

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What is in this for YOU?

When I take my time and stop for a little bit I reflect heavily on what I’m doing and what is in it for me. What am I gaining from giving away the information I’ve learned about Mediumship, Psychic gifts and all things “mystical?” Who is benefitting from this blog? Who am I really doing this for?

It’s a good question, one I’d like you to take a moment and ask yourself as well. I have been doing readings more and more steadily in the last few months and as a result my blog content has gone down, sorry about that. What has happened also though is I’m finding more and more people with gifts who need a place to start learning about them. Of course I direct them here and tell them to start reading from blog one and then think about how once they read through to the most current blog that they may be left hanging. I certainly don’t want to leave anyone hanging, especially if they are finding this site useful and easy to understand. With that said I will be picking up some new things to write about in regards to developing your own gifts. Now with that I ask “Who are you developing your gifts for and why?”

I started developing my own gifts pretty much out of instinct. I didn’t really have a motive other than I felt it needed to happen. Once I started to really dive in and understand who I was and how each of my own gifts worked I wanted to know more, not only did I want to know more but I wanted to test myself as myouruch as possible.

I started doing readings for friends and close family and it was a rush to say the least, when I would speak on behalf of a deceased person to the living. Describing an old apartment or fond memory they had, telling the living that the departed family member was alright and at peace became comforting to me. In the moment it was anyway, there was certainly a strain at home and there always will be. That’s with anything we dedicate time to, I want you to remember that for anything you apply yourself to. At first my wife thought it was a novelty or something I probably wouldn’t pursue too heavily, I have many interests and they all fizzle out and come back in waves.

Mediumship however never stopped being on my mind, it grew, like a small sapling into what is now a maturing tree. I consumed books and books, videos and podcasts and anything I could find for free on the Internet. Then something happened. I hit a wall. I grew as far as I felt I could. I kept reading the same things over and over, now what?

I decided I would take my perspective and knowledge and write a blog. Then the blog needed exposure so I started an Instagram and Facebook page for it. Then time went on, people booked me for readings and gave me glowing reviews, passed my cards along to family and friends. My Gift that was my passion grew into a small business. Well known people in the business of Psychics and Mediums have taken notice of me, even well known Paranormal Investigators ask my opinion on some of their cases. To say I’m humbled by all of that would be an understatement.

I recently became so overwhelmed with people asking for readings that I asked my wife to be the schedule keeper, a big step for me since I had been managing it myself for so long. Not only a big step for me though, a big one for her as well. Shellie, my wife takes care of our 2 young children, the house, the bills, the cooking and laundry and manages me now. My gift has turned into another job for someone else, thank goodness she took the position because I was drowning in schedule hell.

I write the blog for you. I want you to develop your gifts, whatever they may be. I want you to be as good as you can be with as much free information as you can get. That’s what I wanted for myself as well. I have that and so much more. Now, ask yourself “What is in this for YOU?”

What are you going to do with your gift once you have developed it into something that you can do on demand? Are you going to keep it to yourself? Are you going to tell friends? Will you make a business out of it? That’s all up to you. I just think about how I started doing this with no intention of being where I am and wonder what others are doing with the gift they have.

I’ll leave this session with this:

Do not have fear of the unknown. Embrace your Gifts, be positive and do this for you!

Scott

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Blowing Smoke (sage)

Every time that I open up a new blog or go to a Facebook page where somebody is affected by something they think is a negative entity someone always suggests that they burn Sage to rid themselves of the being. It seems that it is the trend since all of the paranormal shows have shown it on television.

Have you ever come across this exact type of post before? If you are like me and read as much paranormal media as you can then I’m sure you have. Where did this idea come from that every entity is negative and should be gotten rid of with sage? I know that saging or smudging a house or area is an ancient ritual. However not every entity, ghost or whatever you want to call them is bad and needs to be gotten rid of.

I myself have used white sage many times to help calm the atmosphere of a location that was encountering negative paranormal happenings. However I have not found that this ritual will forever get rid of a spirit that does want to be there. Are all of these shows blowing smoke? What is the real answer for moving on a spirit that we no longer want in our space?

Let’s take a look at why we would not want a spirit or entity in our space. For one reason it may be very disruptive to our everyday lives, such as banging knocking or being all-around frightening which we would call a haunting. Maybe the spirit is making you feel uncomfortable in other ways, such as making you feel watched or depressed and or anxious. These are great reasons to want to have a spirit evacuate your area. Before we get into good ways to have the spirit exit your life let’s talk about why they may be there in the first place.

Through many investigations and speaking with many different Spirits I have found that the things they do that frighten us or haunt us are often ways that they try to get our attention. Many times it just feels frightening to us because the events that are occurring around us are not expected. If a spirit were to yell in your ear right now you would probably jump out of your skin, but maybe they are screaming in your ear because they have been trying for months to get your attention for help. How can you help them? Well first you have to learn to listen or find somebody who knows how to listen to them. Obviously this day in age you can go on the internet and look for your local psychic medium or a paranormal group to help you out. Hopefully if you have been reading my blog then you have figured out how to listen to them for yourselves.

Unlike an unwanted pests or bug infestation in your home these paranormal beings have a want or a need and should be listened to. If after you have done a thorough investigation it leads you to believe that this is a negative entity then you should contact the proper people to help you move them on. I think it is in everyone’s best interest however to take the time to find out what they want, more than likely they are good or at least malevolent and are just looking for help.

Don’t let negative media and television guide your thoughts about the Paranormal. It is very important for you to come to conclusions yourself, and if you cannot come to the conclusion again it is important to find a reputable team or person that can help you.

Next time you see a post about someone being afraid in their home or area and someone suggest they Sage it to rid the space of a ghost make sure you direct them here and tell them it is important to listen to what the entity has to say.

I hope you have gained a little inside from this and realize that we should not be blowing smoke at each other.

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