If you find yourself achieving new goals and start to get freaked out because you aren’t used to the success Don’t back off!
What does that mean? Well personally when things start to go well I get a little sinical. Like where is the backlash of crap that’s gonna come with the good? I don’t back off but I also always am looking over my shoulder for the kick in the pants. With all new adventures and new endeavours there are going to be growing pains. There will be learning and set backs and things you don’t want to deal with. It happens to me all the time.
From the time I started developing my Mediumship, to public readings and publishing this blog there have been set backs and some of them are more than inconvenient. Some of them outright put my life in a tailspin. I feel like the character in a movie who pulls the airplane up right before tragedy strikes. That’s a real feeling. When you start to feel that way don’t let go of the controls, hold on! The only way to regain control and move forward is to grip tight and handle the issues.
No matter what life throws at you from personal to professional to spiritual you will not grow if you are continuously crashing when things get turbulent. (I think I’m using plane speak because I’ve been flying alot the last month.) The reason to endure the hard stuff? Growth! If you aren’t challenged and meeting them and failing at them you aren’t growing. What’s my failure point right now? Well personally it’s my weight. I have to lose some, it’s a problem for me. I keep trying. I haven’t given up yet. I also have a huge time management problem. I am learning by unfortunately missing deadlines and piling on more than I can handle at once. Without doing that though I won’t know my limit. I hope that if i keep overloading myself that I will get used to the work and adapt and get better if not, I’ll crash but I’ll crash holding on.
After I do crash I always have to look around and see what’s left. What went wrong and how can I get up again and move forward. DO YOU DO THAT?
It seems to me that a great time to learn is on the job, you can read here about developing your abilities but you won’t develop until you go out on a limb and push yourself. What’s holding you back? The same thing that held me back, being afraid of failing. That’s over. If you are coming here and reading and getting your head right to deal with and make your Spiritual Gifts stronger than let’s do it.
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Here’s some homework. Find a friend. Read for them. Psychic or Medium or a blend and just put it all out there. When that’s done send me a message on Facebook and tell me how it went. I want to know! I’m looking forward to you hearing about what you excelled at and what you didn’t. What information can I give you to help you along? What other problems do you have that you need a tool to fix? That’s why this blog is here.
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