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Forgiving is not forgetting

So many times I sit with folks and someone from the other side comes to speak with us only for me to hear “I don’t want to speak to them.” That’s a powerful statement, someone has taken the energy to come through and the living don’t have an interest in speaking with them. That means there was a tremendous amount of pain and hurt between the two parties at some point in life.

I would never and have never said that someone is “cursed.” That’s a word I don’t believe in, at this point in my understanding of energy and how things work from a psychic and Mediumship standpoint. With that said, having a horrible relationship with someone and not making an amends with them even after they have passed is as close to a curse as I have ever seen.

When a negative, bad or downright evil person has done harm to us in life why would we forgive them when they are gone? They don’t deserve forgiveness and they aren’t getting it. I understand, I totally understand. However just read this next part: Not forgiving them leaves you with an equal amount of pain as them. They are energetically tied to you in a negative way until you forgive them. The sooner your give forgiveness the sooner they will detach from your energy and You will feel better. Forgiving is not forgetting.

You don’t have to forget what they did, you shouldn’t. The past is important it helps build us into who we are, but forgiving someone (dead or alive) will leave you feeling better. I have said it for so long and those who take the following advice always come back and tell me how much better they feel after doing it.

Write a letter to the person who you are extending forgiveness to. Write down what they did wrong to you, how you feel about it, how it affected you and why you are going to forgive them. When that is done burn the letter. That’s it. Break the energetic tie.

After you do that please write to me and tell me how you did!

Good luck!

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Forgiving is not forgetting

So many times I sit with folks and someone from the other side comes to speak with us only for me to hear “I don’t want to speak to them.” That’s a powerful statement, someone has taken the energy to come through and the living don’t have an interest in speaking with them. That means there was a tremendous amount of pain and hurt between the two parties at some point in life.

I would never and have never said that someone is “cursed.” That’s a word I don’t believe in, at this point in my understanding of energy and how things work from a psychic and Mediumship standpoint. With that said, having a horrible relationship with someone and not making an amends with them even after they have passed is as close to a curse as I have ever seen.

When a negative, bad or downright evil person has done harm to us in life why would we forgive them when they are gone? They don’t deserve forgiveness and they aren’t getting it. I understand, I totally understand. However just read this next part: Not forgiving them leaves you with an equal amount of pain as them. They are energetically tied to you in a negative way until you forgive them. The sooner your give forgiveness the sooner they will detach from your energy and You will feel better. Forgiving is not forgetting.

You don’t have to forget what they did, you shouldn’t. The past is important it helps build us into who we are, but forgiving someone (dead or alive) will leave you feeling better. I have said it for so long and those who take the following advice always come back and tell me how much better they feel after doing it.

Write a letter to the person who you are extending forgiveness to. Write down what they did wrong to you, how you feel about it, how it affected you and why you are going to forgive them. When that is done burn the letter. That’s it. Break the energetic tie.

After you do that please write to me and tell me how you did!

Good luck!

Visit me at scottythenjmedium.com and the paranormal investigation team at parsinvestigations.com

Learn about my services here!
http://m.me/Scottythenjmedium

Join the discussion on my private Facebook page!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/848331228662198/

Want to see me on Inside Edition as I investigate Miss Fannys Paranormal Party House? Yeah you do! Click this link and check that amazing video out!

Click the link below to visit the Shanley Hotels web page to book an investigation!
Thehauntedshanleyhotel.com
Visit the PARS Team YouTube and subscribe!
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVROGd5sr8arY7e9eaeBBcg

Here are a few links to my favorite meditation videos!

Need gear for your investigation? Visit my affiliate link below!
https://www.ghoststop.com/?Click=50012

Thank you for your continued support!
Scott

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Closing your Third Eye?

That sounds counter to what we do around here! Well if we always are working on opening our third eye then we also should know how to close it.

Maybe your Third Eye has always been open and you didn’t even know it, I have a link to my latest video below and I explain some of the symptoms of having an always open Third Eye and how to remedy that.

Don’t worry, you can reopen your third eye any time you like. After you get used to opening and closing you will feel better and be much better at doing it.

You see faces at bedtime when you close your physical eyes? Colors form and swirl? Anxiety go through the roof and your imagination takes off leading to worry, stress and a sleepless night?

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Visit me and the paranormal investigation team at parsinvestigations.com

Want to see me on Inside Edition as I investigate Miss Fannys Paranormal Party House? Yeah you do! Click this link and check that amazing video out!

Click the link below to visit the Shanley Hotels web page to book an investigation!
Thehauntedshanleyhotel.com
Visit the PARS Team YouTube and subscribe!
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVROGd5sr8arY7e9eaeBBcg

Here are a few links to my favorite meditation videos!

Need gear for your investigation? Visit my affiliate link below!
https://www.ghoststop.com/?Click=50012

Thank you for your continued support!
Scott

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Learning.

We learn to modify what we are doing and how we are doing it through experience.

Experience comes with time and usually it leads to growth and a much more clear path. Recently I have done my first larger (50 people) gallery reading and it was awesome. I’m currently editing footage together to show you all on my YouTube channel.

Why is this important to you? Well I started my adventure into professional Mediumship by thinking I could do it. That progessed into individual readings, to parties and now into gallery style readings.

I was nervous, not really if I could do the readings but how to do them. I am constantly trying to better myself and mostly the only way to do that is to fail. Yeah I said “fail.” I did fail a few times during my gallery reading and next time I can handle myself a bit better. Perhaps I will understand the energy better and it will be more clear as to the messages that are coming to me. I’m sure that will be the case!

I want you to read that and know that you should keep on your path, it’s ok to fail. Maybe you have already and learned and are moving on to the next technique. Maybe you just realized the old way wasn’t working anymore and needed a new way to do things, which brings me to my other love. Paranormal Investigations.

We’ve seen TV shows use night vision and static cameras forever. Have they really caught anything amazing? Every once in a while they do. What about a new way to look for the paranormal and capture it on film?

Check out my latest YouTube video for just the tip and the best part is…its on a budget ghost hunting camera tips!

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Visit me and the paranormal investigation team at parsinvestigations.com

Want to see me on Inside Edition as I investigate Miss Fannys Paranormal Party House? Yeah you do! Click this link and check that amazing video out!

Click the link below to visit the Shanley Hotels web page to book an investigation!

Thehauntedshanleyhotel.com

Visit the PARS Team YouTube and subscribe!

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVROGd5sr8arY7e9eaeBBcg

Here are a few links to my favorite meditation videos!

Need gear for your investigation? Visit my affiliate link below!

https://www.ghoststop.com/?Click=50012

Thank you for your continued support!

Scott

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Scotty

The Haunted Shanley Hotel

What could possibly happen at a 100 plus year old hotel that has been a hotel, boarding house, home to the Irish and Italian Mafia? What kinds of activity could you possible encounter in a place where there are possibly over 20 active Spirits?

Maybe a disembodied voice or an EVP or two? How about the above and more! I recently visited the Shanley Hotel in New York State and it was amazing. I have been to many places that claimed paranormal activity but not many have lived up to the hype, so like most locations I arrived with little to no expectations of something happening. That was absolutely wrong.

First of all the Shanley has the classic haunted look from the outside, peeling white paint, old looking windows and a chillingly empty street that it sits on. As I pulled into the parking lot I could feel the electricity in the air, the Spirit Energy built up quickly. I wasn’t sure what to expect, there was no indication of how the night would go the moment the big green steal door opened and I was permitted entry into the Shanley Hotel.

I was lucky enough to have the foresight to film my hours on location in addition to the evidence capturing cameras that ran the entirety of my stay. Thanks to the parsinvestigations.com team I am sure there are volumes of evidence captured that will surface during evidence review. In the meantime I caught plenty of my own evidence, which is all put together in a nice tidy video on YouTube. You can click the link below and take a ghostly tour with me through the ornate hallways, the morgue bearing basement and the yet to be restored third floor.

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Meet the Challenge

Have you been testing yourself? Having some doubts about your gifts? I hope not! If you have though I’m here to tell you that it is time to meet the challenge! Step out into the Spiritual Spotlight and give it a go.

Here are 3 steps to help you out!

Number 1: Start by confiding in friends and family. Those closest to you should absolutely get the direction you are headed. I would guess most wouldn’t be surprised. Tell them you would like a chance to try and use your Gift and explain that it will help you move forward on your path.

Number 2: Always be confident that Spirit will show up for you. Trust me when I tell you that Spirit will be there to give you what you are looking for during readings. Expect the first few readings to be rocky and have unexpected turns and twists. I started there and so did most people like us. Have you ever heard of a trust fall? Everyone gathers behind a person and then that person falls back blindly knowing the group will catch them. That’s what doing readings is like. Trust fall knowing Spirit will always catch you, and it will.

Number 3: Today is a better day to start than tomorrow. The sooner you start accepting your Gift and applying it to life the better you will be at using it and the more positive impact you will have on those around you! That’s what this Gift is for, blessing those around us and giving us a piece of mind that we are making a positive impact around us!

Get going! Don’t hesitate! Spirit is waiting for you and messages are going unanswered until you dial in and listen to them!

Leave a comment! Let me know how your progress is going! As always follow me on Facebook and Instagram @scottythenjmedium and check out my YouTube channel! We are live!

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Don’t overthink your Intuition! You are Psychic!

When people ask “How did you know you had this ability?” I always tell them

“I didn’t know!”

What did I know? That when I was getting information from beyond my 5 senses that it had to be verified and that and I wasn’t going to overthink it.

Don’t overthink your intuition! That’s the number 1 rule to understanding your higher self and your knowing of information beyond your 5 senses. For instance if I am doing a task and have a thought about a flat tire, I’ve learned to just be patient because I’m going to be the unlucky recipient of a flat or someone I know will be getting one in the very near future. Maybe I am in a location I’ve never been in before and I feel as though I shouldn’t be there, looking into some history later may yield results that an event occurred there that was unpleasant. Research will always help validate your feelings.

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Overthinking your own feelings, emotions and experiences will flatten your intuition. If everytime you had a feeling something wasn’t right or you had to call someone and knocked the idea down to act on it, you’d probably miss opportunities or find yourself looking back and saying “I should have acted on that.” Nothing feels worse than saying “I knew this was going to happen.”

-Hindsight is 20/20, Foresight is invaluable.

From now on what I would tell you to do is that every time you get a feeling write it down. Take a memo on your phone, voice record it. Make sure to include the date.

After that wait for any similar information to present itself in your life and make comparisons. If you find yourself 1% accurate than you are off to a great start. Build off of your accuracy, be encouraged that you are getting it right! Don’t doubt yourself, don’t overthink the information. If you are close, you are doing great! You are Psychic, we all are!

Scotty

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New Year New Beginnings!

Hey everyone!

Nice to see you all out there! Are you ready for some new and amazing things in 2019? I know I am! How are we starting it out? Well a little early to tell you the truth. I already started my vlog for 2019. Episode 1 is already up on YouTube. Click the link below to check out out, then lets talk about some of the new things happening around here and how I plan on helping you with your Mediumship and Psychic development.

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I hope you had fun checking that out. Now that you have subscribed to my YouTube channel you can see when I upload new content including special talks that integrate with the blogs I write here. That means you can read the material and have some audio and visual aid to help you along.

We are going to go on a video adventure together in 2019. I’ll be chronicling mostly all that I’m doing, including events, reading and my home life. I’ll be writing special lessons to teach you all how to unlock your potential Psychic abilities!

I’ll be showing you how to apply your gifts in a practical manner that you can incorporate in your every day life. I’ll also be giving special lessons on how to start a small business like I have done and how to make it successful!

It’s all about learning and teaching and accelerating through life becoming better than we were yesterday! Lets make 2019 the best year yet!

Thanks for coming on this journey with me, I’m super excited to make new memories with you all! Let’s do readings, let’s make content and let’s have fun!

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Speak your truth and be good to others!

I feel as though we shouldn’t have to go past the title of today’s blog. We of course will and it won’t be preachy, I promise.

As I’ve gone through life my opinions have changed and most certainly my way of conveying those ideas has morphed. When I was young I was outspoken and whatever I said was right and anyone who disagreed with me was clearly wrong. I was in a band, I wrote lyrics about my life and any chance I got would scream them at the top of my lungs. I’m not a famous rock star so that didn’t really work out, it just wasn’t my path. I still love to create music by the way, it is a great stress relief. So the music thing was my platform and the lyrics were my truth, at the time.

A very embarrassing photo of my much younger goofball self. Clearly I was having a great time though.

I learned lots from those days of playing , writing and collaborating with others. I learned that some people shared the same truths as me and many had different ideas that didn’t match my own. Often I look back and am upset that I didn’t have the guts to listen to their opinions. What gems did I miss out on? For a second let’s think about “truth.” What we believe to be fact. There are scientific truths, we breath oxygen and the sky is blue and science explains why. How about a truth that isn’t scientific (yet)? We as humans have the capability to speak to the dead and far beyond that dimension if we open to it. What!?

Yeah, that’s my truth and it’s expanding every day. If I went back to 2002 and told 20 year old me that to my face, I would get mocked, called a hippy and maybe thrown back in the time machine I came out of. 20 year old me wasn’t ready for the truth that I have found now. Now, let’s pretend there are other people out there of all ages genders and race who aren’t ready for that truth. Wait, we don’t have to pretend, that’s a real fact. It’s cool though, they don’t have to adhere to my truth. I don’t even try to explain it to them, I am certainly not looking for confrontation. Even though I personally have been goaded into arguments many times before, I now know through time and experience it doesn’t move the conversation forward. They don’t have the same perspective I do so how could they understand this truth?

Now, just because we don’t believe the same thing doesn’t mean we have to be mean to each other. Actually I find that when people don’t understand where I am coming from I will work harder to being depth into the Spiritual Gift I have. My platform changed since the days of a dim lit stage and a sweet Fender Jag-Stang guitar. I now have this, the internet, my blog and Facebook and Instagram. Amazing places for like minded people to meet and share ideas. I don’t have to shout or be offensively loud to get my point across. I just type or make a video. It’s amazing. The best part? If someone comes to be a troll or a genuine pain in the neck I can just remove them. I don’t have to be mean or “stoop to their level.” (Hmmm matching thier low vibration?) I simply hit a button and they are ignored. Luckily I haven’t really dealt with it much. People tend to find me because they need peace and kind words that are coming from a genuine place.

Let me tell you, I have never and will never say I am perfect or don’t judge. I’m not going to put that untruth out there. I am a human and I make decisions on judgment of people all the time. It’s not a trait I love, especially when it is skin deep. The thing I have learned however is to keep it to myself whether I am in front of them or over the internet. My opinion of someone else does not matter. It is not a truth. Just like when someone speaks on me and they do not know me. They are not speaking a truth, they are just judging on their perspective and values. We can disagree on most things and still get along, I try to implement that as often as I can.

I love to say “good morning” and “thank you” and “your welcome.” Not in a corny cheeseball way. In a genuine respectful way. Connect with others and be genuine. Since I have been implementing that thought. That very intention my Spirit has grown and the negative has stopped flowing my way in a very noticeable volume. Life is becoming better.

For your future growth as a person as a Soul and perhaps as a Medium or Psychic Speak your truth. Speak it proudly. When others look to disagree let them. Do not engage with them. They are just behind your Spiritual growth, like 20 year old me. I didn’t know any better. Just smile at them and thank your higher self and whomever on the other side for your perspective and insight. You are blessed. Life is good, Spirit is good and you can infect others with your gestures and kindness that stem from your Spiritual Truth.

I hope that you enjoyed this, I certainly loved writing it. I know that you will understand this and take the message and run with it. That’s the intent. Have a great day and I look forward to seeing you on my Facebook page and on Instagram @scottythenjmedium

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