Today marks the day of the Planetary alignment of Jupiter and Saturn. A day that a “awakening” is supposed to happen shifting those of us who want it from 3D to 5D. I never really thought too much into things like the position of planets effecting me, however recently the energy is different. Seeing as I don’t see a reason to possibly miss an opportunity I included a guided meditation in this week’s podcast. You should check it out and let me know of you feel more awake afterwards.
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One thing that should be abundantly clear is that I am my own hardest critic and my own biggest skeptic. If something does not make sense in a very specific way during a reading I dismiss it on the spot. As a matter of fact, I write down my thoughts during readings and let anyone who wants to record the session. Why? Because it is imperative to me as a skeptic to show my work. If I cannot bring proof in a way that is tangabal than what is the point? I don’t need someone to say “I don’t believe in people like you” or “I will only believe you if you give me something about myself that no one else knows.” That sort of thing is a challenge and I’m not here to perform for you or “prove” to you that what I’m doing is genuine.
The proof is in the pudding and a picture is worth a thousand words. Time and time again I receive information from those who passed describing specific photographs of which I could not make up the circumstances or describe with the best of imaginations and be accurate. However it keeps happening. Without those pieces of proof I would have stopped doing this a long time ago. Why? Because I NEED THE VALIDATION AND PROOF ALSO.
This is a simple retort to all those who are so arguently against an afterlife or Mediums and Psychics. From my life, from my point of view, I did not seek this. I have a good job and do not need income from this to support my family or even for extras in life. I am blessed beyond what I could have asked for. I am a Medium who was gifted something amazing and I refuse to ignore it and ask “what if” later in life. I will continue to do this until the day, if it ever comes that there is no proof or validation in specific ways from those in the living world showing me the physical proof of what I am saying during readings is true.
I am my own worst critic and a bigger skeptic than those who attack me. That alone drives me to be better and better and push my gift to find the limits where I can reproduce every time at every session. Which I am close to, but I’m still sharpening this pencil and I will continue to for a very long time. I am not here to provide proof to the skeptic, or myself, but to bring healing in beautiful messages from those on the other side of life. The awesome side effect is continuing showing that there is an afterlife, we retain our personalities and consciousness and we love to check in on our living loved ones after we cross.
I hope you all understand and most importantly know that whatever your opinion is, I respect it and I don’t challenge it. You are a unique person with your own values and thoughts. You are awesome and I appreciate you. Scott
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Sometimes it feels like the road to no where, then I remember that at the end of this life it will be somewhere. A paradise. A place to finally relax, be done with work and be at Home.
The negativity spouted at myself and people like me, Mediums and such., by “holy rollers” is just unbelievable. I have never met a group that says love everyone and then preaches hatred against others like these folks. I don’t pretend to know it all but I am certain that God would not give an extraordinary Gift to All of Us unless He wanted us to use it. I don’t claim to be the way to anything or preach about religion, hell I skirt the issue usually. My beliefs and values are not the same as everyone’s but I do try to be moral and lead a good life. I pray, I attempt to do good things with no expectation of reward. The path, the wide road it turned into is tough enough without being questioned by someone who has a devout belief that “You are going to hell for what you do.”
How many fund raisers have you done? How many families have you sat with and consoled? How much good have you done to spread the actual Love of God? Maybe more than me, I am just a guy trying to figure it out but I am also a Man who is using something amazing to do his part in a way that I find to be authentic and accessible to many. Is there an afterlife? Yeah, for sure there is. Thats my Faith speaking. Is there a Heaven? Yes. Thats my experience speaking. Even for those tortured earthly souls who could not manage any longer and took there own lives! God forgives. God Loves. I’ve spoken to the souls of those who were unfortunate enough to not want to be here any more. My Faith in God has never been stronger. I will attest to that right now! So if “The Devil” is trying to steal me from my faith and God then the Devil done fd up because I walk with the Lord and need Him in my life because I am not perfect I’m not even that good. I’m just a man, a man with a gift. I didn’t ask for it, I didn’t seek it. God gave it to me. I am going to use it forever to spread as much Love and Positivity as I can.
This is the first and last time I will ever be “preachy” but if anyone questions my Love for God or my Faith again….well, I’ll pray for you. Your soul is hurt and more lost than mine on this road to Heaven.
Scotty
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Wow, just wow. Being an Empath is exhaustive! We are getting to that time of year too, when everyone feels bared down on, worn out and tired. 2020 has made that feeling even more amplified by not giving any of us a break. Pandemic, job loss, money issues, political crisis and so much more. If 2020 was a movie the trailer would look like a horror movie. I don’t think I’d be inclined to watch, horror movies get me worked up in the worst ways. I feel for the characters on screen, yeah, even ones that may be getting what they deserve.
Thats being an Empath. Feeling others emotions and maybe even getting those sympathy pains too. That’s just from watching a movie. Imagine what it’s like to be around real life people. A little harder to imagine right now with things being “locked down.” I hate buzz words but that one is going to ring in my ears like a school bell for as long as I live. The pressures everyone is feeling are the same I’m feeling and if you are an empath, than you are feeling it too. How to cope? Thats the question.
1. Take a breath. Slow controlled breaths tell our mind that everything is going to be ok.
2. Make a plan. Take the guess out of the day. Make a plan and stick to it. If things come up that are not in the plan, take a breath, handle it, get back to the plan.
3. Repeat after me: “I’m stronger than the circumstances presented to me and I’m going to make it.” Thats an easy mantra I want you to apply to life.
Scott, how does this help me with my Empathic nature? Well it helps take the anxiety out of the day. When people approach you with their own stressors you can hit step 1. Then see if its in the plan, no? Step 1 a few times. Deal with the new issues. Don’t over stress yourself with others issues and then remember #3. You got this. 2020 is a pain in the ass! However you are strongest person you know and its time to take your feelings and your life back!
Have steps you want to add? Leave me a comment and tell me what they are!
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How can I explain an easy way to quiet the mind? Well its a different experience and method for each of us. I always tell people in order to be able to achieve tapping into your paychic ability is about Meditation and being quiet in your own mind. Your head is your space. You cannot let other people into it, that means all the daily day to day tasks, appointments, school, finance, they all have to leave. Well that can be easier said than done, I know all of those things rent space in each of our heads and they all have a “voice.” Each voice is different and bring different level of “anxiety” which is really just an importance level you have assigned in your mind. Thats all good, for sure. It makes sure the kids are picked up from school, work tasks are accomplished and the bills are paid. All of those things are your “Big Voice” inside your head. Well if there is a big voice, there must be a “Little voice.” You would be correct. That little voice in there is like a nagging kid in the backseat! “I know you are talking but I have to drive this car safely and get us where we are going!” What if you could let go of the steering wheel for a few minutes, the ride is completely self driving and completely safe. Now you can listen to that little voice in the back tell you all kinds of things. The colors of the world you are missing, the things you have forgotten about. You can listen to the questions and ponder the answers more deeply. You can enjoy that little voice a little more. That little voice can also give you wisdom because that little voice is not a child it is your intuition and it is actually quiet loud if you let it be.
Now that you hopefully understand with my little analogy of what intuition is and what the little voice is, you’ll understand how to focus on it with a few tips, which I’ll give you now.
1. Put it on autopilot. What can we do to achieve our bodies autopilot? Everyone is different and it really comes down to a few things. You need to know what relaxes you, on a big scale at first. What do you do to forget the world around you so you can listen to the world inside of you? I will link a few really amazing YouTube videos here that are just relaxing and calming music or white noise. Find one that fits you. When you have done that find something dark to place over your eyes like a sleep mask or even just a dark tshirt.
2.Lay down in your bed, put the music you have chosen at a comfortable level and now put your mask over your eyes. 2. Set your intention. You have come this far. You want to clear your mind, relax and get in the mood to be calm or to connect with your higher self, guides or Spirit. This is where focusing on your breathing helps. Feel your chest rise, feel it fall. Feel the air go in and out of your nose. Take several deep breaths. Relax. See the darkness, recognize it. As you focuse on the dark and breathing your ears will hear the sounds you’ve picked much better. Do this for a few minutes. You will feel sleepy. Calm and relaxed. Nothing else aside from what you are doing matters. Not the bills, not work, not your chore list. This is for you, this will help you be a better more focused individual the better you get at it.
Here is your blank movie screen. What do you see?
3. With your imagination put a TV screen, phone or movie theater screen in front of you. Project it onto that screen. Its blank right now, it’s all that is in front of you though. Once you can see the screen well pick something, any topic you want to reflect on. See the images of that topic flicker to life in front of you. If you are seeking a Guide as them to appear, if you are seeking a deceased loved one, ask them to appear. If you are looking for guidance on a deep personal decision ask the related answer to appear.
Once you have worked through those three steps you will be able to meditate easily. It takes time, give yourself the time. You can so this day or night. Make sure you aren’t too tired or you’ll just fall asleep. Once you’ve worked this out it is important to document what you saw, felt and “heard.” (The thoughts you had during the meditation.)
Things absolutely will be foggy at first. Clearing away all stress and life is not easy, it’s an exercise. One that needs to be repeated often to get better at. Once you become proficient at it thought, you’ll do it while awake. You’ll learn to make better decisions based on you intuitive self and hopefully you’ll be calmer and better equipped to deal with anxiety and stress. You’ll be able to go to a relaxing quiet space in your mind whenever you need in order to escape the waking stress. Then you can better handle the stress without feeling overloaded and trapped by it.
Stay tuned for my own video on my YouTube chanel where I will do a guided meditation.
I hope this helps you clear your mind, focus and gain the insight you have been looking for. Please follow my blog, leave a comment and share with your friends!
Scotty
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A lesson I have learned through Mediumship is to be less judgmental.
I have never really been one in my life to “judge a book by its cover” but being human it has happened.
I have learned so much about the trials a human soul endures through Mediumship and part of what helps my Gifts get better and grow is that I have learned to not put anyone in a box. Good, bad or indifferent. Sure I have my values and morals but I don’t use them to judge others. They lead a life I couldn’t understand and I possibly lead one they couldn’t understand.
I’ve spoken to War Heros, Celebs, Moms, Dads, cousins and friends. I’ve spoke to drug users and folks who spent serious time in prison. None of those things usually defines a person’s whole life. That helped me in my life because I am a Dad a husband a son, a first responder and a Medium. I am a former Marine and I have some of the best friends in the world. I am sure everyone would speak about me in different ways and have different ideas of who I am, just like we experience each other differently.
There are lots of chapters to books. Good ones, bad ones, long ones, slow and sad ones and many that are exciting. Read the whole book, don’t judge and remember to treat everyone kindly.
Thats a lesson Mediumship has taught me.
Scott
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Imagine you could travel through time like Marty Mcfly and Doc Brown in Back to the Future. What an amazing experience that would be. Unfortunately it doesn’t look like a silver DeLorean time machine isn’t going to come blazing into our reality anytime soon, so we need to use what we have. What we can reach out and grasp today.
That would be Psychometry.
The ability to reach out and touch an object and be brought back in time to where it was made, who utilized it and many rich details about that person and their life. It all starts with knowing how to do the technique.
Bring a pen and paper for this exercise.
First, have a friend give you an object they know would have some rich history, family heirlooms work best. Put the object in front of you. Turn your palms upward and place them in front of you. I want you to imagine that on each palm there is swirling energy. Pick a color that would work best for you, I love red and blue for this exercise but you pick what you like! After you have your energy moving in your palms, I want you to see the energy expand, spin faster and become brighter. When you are comfortable your energy is where you want it I want you to take several deep breaths. This will bring calmness. Close your eyes for a moment and clear your mind.
Next open your eyes and reach out in front of yourself. Pick up the object, handle it, run your hands over it. What impressions are you receiving? Are having any emotional reactions? What are they? Does the object have its own energy? Are any impressions of an owner coming through? What they look like, where they lived. Maybe you can see the origin of the object or the journey it has been on since it was made.
Once you start getting impressions take a break every few minutes and write everything down. Do not worry about being “wrong.” Your focus is not to be right, just to be getting information. If you feel like you are struggling take a breath, clear your mind again and start over. This technique will not work immediately for many people, however for some you will be overwhelmed with information. We all have strengths and weaknesses and we all have to work on our gifts.
Once you feel that you have gotten as much information as you could, finish writing. Place the item down. Look at your palms, see the energy and close it up. Thank your energy for working with you. Place your palms down and breath out. You should be excited and happy that you have just completed such an awesome exercise!
Read your notes to your friend. Compare your impressions to what they actually know about the object. Who owned it, where it came from and so on. Don’t be discouraged if you didn’t hit it out of the park, this is a starting point and I bet you got some things right! Even if they were in a round about way of being correct. Make sure to take the victories!
I hope you practice this and apply it often, when you become confident you will use this technique all the time, sometimes without knowing it. Psychometry is one of my favorite techniques to use when doing readings and especially during paranormal investigations.
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As this pandemic keeps on and most of us are doing our part by staying home I realize that even for myself it is becoming harder and harder to stay grounded. Emotionally, physically and mentally the entire world is being challenged. Nothing like this has happened in my lifetime, and probably not yours. My children though, they are seeing it now and may see something like it again. They won’t be prepared for it though if it happens again, unless I show them how to ground and to stay healthy mentally, Spiritually and physically.
I think that Spiritually being grounded at a time like this is the anchor, the most fundamental part of yourself, each of us and can keep the mental and physical going through a trying time like this. What do I mean by being “grounded?” Well, it’s up to each of us individually how to apply what I’m speaking about. For me, meditation and praying are my grounding techniques. They are the usual however what’s happening now is that I have not been doing readings or dipping into the Spirit world for anyone but myself and my family. My Guides stopped me a few weeks before all of this began and basically told me it was time to recharge and I my Spiritual Energy battery is at maximum capacity.
So, what have you been doing to stay grounded while inside without contact from your friends and family? Chores, house work? Organizing that pile of mail? Maybe you’ve been making videos for youtube or facebook? “Those are grounding?” You may ask. Yes! Anything that helps you center back into yourself, your thoughts, your Spirit your POWER!
I decided to write this today, after being very quiet about the pandemic mostly the whole time because I know people needed something to help them through from an unbiased place. No agenda, like always, I just want YOU to be your BEST! You are the most important person, you must be strong and to be strong you need a sturdy base and a deep grounding!
Want an easy way to ground? Close your eyes. Imagine a rope hanging from your belly button. It’s the longest rope ever. It has an anchor at the end, drop the anchor to the ground. It penetrates to the center of the Earth and the rope becomes taut. You are grounded to Mother Earth. Push your worries down to Her, She is ok with that. She will return positive energy to you and renew your Spirit!
Please take care of yourself. Reach out to me and say hello. Watch some of my funny, serious and sometimes goofy videos on YouTube. Hang out with me on Facebook or Instagram. I’m always around. Stay healthy and happy and remember to stay grounded. We are almost through this.
Scotty
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I may be going over something old but its important. All of the places you go are not haunted. You are. So to speak.
Yeah that’s a tough concept for some people to grasp, but I do countless readings where I see lines of deceased waiting to speak to the person I’m sitting with and as I’m watching the line and sometimes the circle grow the living person in front of me will tell me about all of the paranormal experiences they have had in their lives. Some even tell me that the ghosts are following them. Yeah no kidding! They know you can see and hear them!
The problem is that most folks aren’t grabbing the concept that they (YOU) are the “portal.” The difference between myself and so many others is that I have honed my focus and really tuned into the world that is beyond our own. I also thought that through my life I was just having a ton of paranormal experiences and that “all these places are haunted.” Then I realized it wasn’t every apartment and every space, it was me!
If you are reading this I want you to totally take a few minutes to reflect on that idea. Really, think back to the times paranormal things happened, you felt something that wasn’t tangible, gave information and had no idea where it came from. Hopefully you are having an epiphany right now. Spiritual lightening is hitting your brain.
Now if you are continuing on let’s talk about the focus of it. You need to slow down. Take a deep breath and acknowledge these SPIRITS. Tell them either yes “I want to speak with you” or “I am not looking to speak with you please leave.”
That’s it, just put this sign up. They will listen.
If you accept please go back and read my other blogs about meditation and learning how to understand your specific gifts. If you decided that this isn’t for you that’s totally ok also! For you I would recommend making that above statement a few times a month or whenever you are feeling overwhelmed for “no reason.” Trust me when I say that it will help.
When we say yes to helping pass messages it is a new journey in our lives and can not only enhance our own life but also those around us. You become the portal, the conduit, the Medium and it is a serious job. We all have a different version of it. Mine is what you see, I act as Medium, Spiritual Warrior, Teacher and Eye Opener and on top of it all I do it very publicly. Your journey will be different but may have some of the same roads and that’s the purpose of the blogs. Follow down the path and when you see a path that is more clearly yours, follow it. That’s it!
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