We learn to modify what we are doing and how we are doing it through experience.
Experience comes with time and usually it leads to growth and a much more clear path. Recently I have done my first larger (50 people) gallery reading and it was awesome. I’m currently editing footage together to show you all on my YouTube channel.
Why is this important to you? Well I started my adventure into professional Mediumship by thinking I could do it. That progessed into individual readings, to parties and now into gallery style readings.
I was nervous, not really if I could do the readings but how to do them. I am constantly trying to better myself and mostly the only way to do that is to fail. Yeah I said “fail.” I did fail a few times during my gallery reading and next time I can handle myself a bit better. Perhaps I will understand the energy better and it will be more clear as to the messages that are coming to me. I’m sure that will be the case!
I want you to read that and know that you should keep on your path, it’s ok to fail. Maybe you have already and learned and are moving on to the next technique. Maybe you just realized the old way wasn’t working anymore and needed a new way to do things, which brings me to my other love. Paranormal Investigations.
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Having trouble listening to Spirit? I can help you get those Spiritual Hearing Aids in!
The first thing we have to ask ourselves is “Do I have an open mind?” If the answer is “Yes!” with enthusiasm then let’s continue.
Can you close your eyes for a moment? Think about your dream get away. Maybe sandy beaches with the smell of suntan lotion in the air and a warm breeze gently brushing your cheeks. Perhaps it’s a mountain get away, cool foggy mornings with a hot cup of java and a view that looks over valleys into three counties over.
Did you picture either of those or something a little different? Go back to that place, close your eyes and imagine the details of things you would want to experience there. Now once you get there invite a friend. Let’s make it someone who has passed and you miss them.
Got them there? Are they wearing a favorite ensemble? How do they smell? Did they bring along something fun with them they did here in life? Maybe they just have a great big hug for you!
Now that you can see them in your dream vacation spot ask them how they are. I’m telling you this is where it gets tricky, but we are just using our imagination so that’s not a big deal. When you say to them “Hey, how are ya?” Do they answer? What did they say? I bet they said they were doing great but said it exactly how you would have expected them to!
Tell them about your day or life or kids or whatever you would have spoken to them about had they been here right next to you. When you get replies I want you to remember them! After you conversation is done take a moment to recall what was said, how it made you feel and how you feel right now.
Ok, write it down.
If you have done all that, then you have completed your first step of Spirit communication. Just because “that’s what they would have said and I know that” phrase is rolling through your head doesn’t mean it wasn’t them. Once you are comfortable speaking to those you love branch out with a friend and see how you do with one of their loved ones! That’s it! Good luck and I hope Spirit fills you with love, joy and confidence!
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Have you been testing yourself? Having some doubts about your gifts? I hope not! If you have though I’m here to tell you that it is time to meet the challenge! Step out into the Spiritual Spotlight and give it a go.
Here are 3 steps to help you out!
Number 1: Start by confiding in friends and family. Those closest to you should absolutely get the direction you are headed. I would guess most wouldn’t be surprised. Tell them you would like a chance to try and use your Gift and explain that it will help you move forward on your path.
Number 2: Always be confident that Spirit will show up for you. Trust me when I tell you that Spirit will be there to give you what you are looking for during readings. Expect the first few readings to be rocky and have unexpected turns and twists. I started there and so did most people like us. Have you ever heard of a trust fall? Everyone gathers behind a person and then that person falls back blindly knowing the group will catch them. That’s what doing readings is like. Trust fall knowing Spirit will always catch you, and it will.
Number 3: Today is a better day to start than tomorrow. The sooner you start accepting your Gift and applying it to life the better you will be at using it and the more positive impact you will have on those around you! That’s what this Gift is for, blessing those around us and giving us a piece of mind that we are making a positive impact around us!
Get going! Don’t hesitate! Spirit is waiting for you and messages are going unanswered until you dial in and listen to them!
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When people ask “How did you know you had this ability?” I always tell them
“I didn’t know!”
What did I know? That when I was getting information from beyond my 5 senses that it had to be verified and that and I wasn’t going to overthink it.
Don’t overthink your intuition! That’s the number 1 rule to understanding your higher self and your knowing of information beyond your 5 senses. For instance if I am doing a task and have a thought about a flat tire, I’ve learned to just be patient because I’m going to be the unlucky recipient of a flat or someone I know will be getting one in the very near future. Maybe I am in a location I’ve never been in before and I feel as though I shouldn’t be there, looking into some history later may yield results that an event occurred there that was unpleasant. Research will always help validate your feelings.
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Overthinking your own feelings, emotions and experiences will flatten your intuition. If everytime you had a feeling something wasn’t right or you had to call someone and knocked the idea down to act on it, you’d probably miss opportunities or find yourself looking back and saying “I should have acted on that.” Nothing feels worse than saying “I knew this was going to happen.”
-Hindsight is 20/20, Foresight is invaluable.
From now on what I would tell you to do is that every time you get a feeling write it down. Take a memo on your phone, voice record it. Make sure to include the date.
After that wait for any similar information to present itself in your life and make comparisons. If you find yourself 1% accurate than you are off to a great start. Build off of your accuracy, be encouraged that you are getting it right! Don’t doubt yourself, don’t overthink the information. If you are close, you are doing great! You are Psychic, we all are!
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Hey everyone! The Vlog is up and running! I’m up to #8! There are no signs of stopping so get involved! I’ll tell you my master plan, super master plan to my videos!
I’m still going to be writing my blog, and probably more often because I’m doing more than I ever thought! That is thanks to the Vlog, a video series where I’m documenting my day to day and editing the footage together to tell a story and tie in a message!
That’s the spring board to other stuff! Exploring strange and haunted areas, guests from the paranormal field, other mediums and psychics. Also, I’ll be making videos teaching you just like I have here!
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Nice to see you all out there! Are you ready for some new and amazing things in 2019? I know I am! How are we starting it out? Well a little early to tell you the truth. I already started my vlog for 2019. Episode 1 is already up on YouTube. Click the link below to check out out, then lets talk about some of the new things happening around here and how I plan on helping you with your Mediumship and Psychic development.
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I hope you had fun checking that out. Now that you have subscribed to my YouTube channel you can see when I upload new content including special talks that integrate with the blogs I write here. That means you can read the material and have some audio and visual aid to help you along.
We are going to go on a video adventure together in 2019. I’ll be chronicling mostly all that I’m doing, including events, reading and my home life. I’ll be writing special lessons to teach you all how to unlock your potential Psychic abilities!
I’ll be showing you how to apply your gifts in a practical manner that you can incorporate in your every day life. I’ll also be giving special lessons on how to start a small business like I have done and how to make it successful!
It’s all about learning and teaching and accelerating through life becoming better than we were yesterday! Lets make 2019 the best year yet!
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I feel as though we shouldn’t have to go past the title of today’s blog. We of course will and it won’t be preachy, I promise.
As I’ve gone through life my opinions have changed and most certainly my way of conveying those ideas has morphed. When I was young I was outspoken and whatever I said was right and anyone who disagreed with me was clearly wrong. I was in a band, I wrote lyrics about my life and any chance I got would scream them at the top of my lungs. I’m not a famous rock star so that didn’t really work out, it just wasn’t my path. I still love to create music by the way, it is a great stress relief. So the music thing was my platform and the lyrics were my truth, at the time.
A very embarrassing photo of my much younger goofball self. Clearly I was having a great time though.
I learned lots from those days of playing , writing and collaborating with others. I learned that some people shared the same truths as me and many had different ideas that didn’t match my own. Often I look back and am upset that I didn’t have the guts to listen to their opinions. What gems did I miss out on? For a second let’s think about “truth.” What we believe to be fact. There are scientific truths, we breath oxygen and the sky is blue and science explains why. How about a truth that isn’t scientific (yet)? We as humans have the capability to speak to the dead and far beyond that dimension if we open to it. What!?
Yeah, that’s my truth and it’s expanding every day. If I went back to 2002 and told 20 year old me that to my face, I would get mocked, called a hippy and maybe thrown back in the time machine I came out of. 20 year old me wasn’t ready for the truth that I have found now. Now, let’s pretend there are other people out there of all ages genders and race who aren’t ready for that truth. Wait, we don’t have to pretend, that’s a real fact. It’s cool though, they don’t have to adhere to my truth. I don’t even try to explain it to them, I am certainly not looking for confrontation. Even though I personally have been goaded into arguments many times before, I now know through time and experience it doesn’t move the conversation forward. They don’t have the same perspective I do so how could they understand this truth?
Now, just because we don’t believe the same thing doesn’t mean we have to be mean to each other. Actually I find that when people don’t understand where I am coming from I will work harder to being depth into the Spiritual Gift I have. My platform changed since the days of a dim lit stage and a sweet Fender Jag-Stang guitar. I now have this, the internet, my blog and Facebook and Instagram. Amazing places for like minded people to meet and share ideas. I don’t have to shout or be offensively loud to get my point across. I just type or make a video. It’s amazing. The best part? If someone comes to be a troll or a genuine pain in the neck I can just remove them. I don’t have to be mean or “stoop to their level.” (Hmmm matching thier low vibration?) I simply hit a button and they are ignored. Luckily I haven’t really dealt with it much. People tend to find me because they need peace and kind words that are coming from a genuine place.
Let me tell you, I have never and will never say I am perfect or don’t judge. I’m not going to put that untruth out there. I am a human and I make decisions on judgment of people all the time. It’s not a trait I love, especially when it is skin deep. The thing I have learned however is to keep it to myself whether I am in front of them or over the internet. My opinion of someone else does not matter. It is not a truth. Just like when someone speaks on me and they do not know me. They are not speaking a truth, they are just judging on their perspective and values. We can disagree on most things and still get along, I try to implement that as often as I can.
I love to say “good morning” and “thank you” and “your welcome.” Not in a corny cheeseball way. In a genuine respectful way. Connect with others and be genuine. Since I have been implementing that thought. That very intention my Spirit has grown and the negative has stopped flowing my way in a very noticeable volume. Life is becoming better.
For your future growth as a person as a Soul and perhaps as a Medium or Psychic Speak your truth. Speak it proudly. When others look to disagree let them. Do not engage with them. They are just behind your Spiritual growth, like 20 year old me. I didn’t know any better. Just smile at them and thank your higher self and whomever on the other side for your perspective and insight. You are blessed. Life is good, Spirit is good and you can infect others with your gestures and kindness that stem from your Spiritual Truth.
I hope that you enjoyed this, I certainly loved writing it. I know that you will understand this and take the message and run with it. That’s the intent. Have a great day and I look forward to seeing you on my Facebook page and on Instagram @scottythenjmedium
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Recently I went to a private residence to investigate a possible haunting.
Here’s my write up on it:
I went to a home last night to investigate a possible haunting. After doing an interview with the woman who was being affected I made my way to her bedroom where all of the alleged activity was happening.
She claimed that she would feel brushing on her face, hear flutters in the night and become very anxious at night in her bedroom.
As soon as I walked into the bedroom I found that there was a perfect PSYCHOMANTIUM set up.
What’s a PSYCHOMANTEUM? Mirrors positioned to reflect each other into an infinite vortex. With the lights on dim this creates a perfect vortex for spirit communication.
Of course this woman had no idea that’s what the problem was, she had 3 closets with sliding mirror doors that faced each other and her bed was directly across from it. I was able to determine that spirits were manifesting through the mirror portal and sealed it. I also saged the home and closed any other portals.
For a final solution I told the woman to cover or remove the mirrors.
Sometimes we accidentally make ways for Spirit to communicate.
Have you ever heard of a PSYCHOMANTEUM?
The term Psychomanteum was coined by Dr. Raymond Moody who also is the head researcher of Near Death Experiences, if you have a chance check out his books.
Hey there! Have you joined in the craze of essential oils yet? If not I would say it’s a good time to. Let me tell you about how much more powerful my meditation is when I use essential oils. Super powerful!
Folks who have sat with me 1 on 1 have certainly seen me apply liberal amounts of peppermint essential oil. Like bathing in it, well maybe not that much but alot. The peppermint essential oil is great for opening up your physical sinus and also helps excite the psychic senses. So prior to every reading I use my peppermint oil. What’s the most important parts of meditation? Breathing and focus. So peppermint oil.
When its time to calm down I use cinnamon because it reminds me of Christmas time and makes me feel warm and calm. If you are having a bad day that would also be a good time to apply cinnamon. If you don’t want to apply the oil directly to your skin you can put them in a diffuser for your home or onto a bracelet or necklace specially designed to hold the scent of the oil.
What do I like to use during meditation? Lavender oil for me! It helps me relax and calm myself and brings me into a deep meditative state. I have the best and most vivid experiences when I use a small amount of lavender oil during meditation. It could be a different oil for you, so you’ll have to try a few.
Is there some science behind this scented oil stuff? Yup!
Your sense of smell is your only cranial nerve, which means it’s the only one hooked up to your brain directly. It controls your eye movement and even your hearing at times. It has even been reported that a human can smell fear! Imagine that? Your nose is powerful enough to smell fear, so imagine if you are purposely looking for smells to activate your spiritual self. The possibilities are endless.
It is interesting to me that that the center of smell is behind the 3rd eye.
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Ever think about where the tradition of Halloween costumes originates from?
As a little kid I remember dressing up in a plastic Superman outfit with a mask that made my face sweat that I couldn’t see out of. I went house to house trick or treating for candy, along with the droves of other kids in the neighborhood. Mom and dad made sure we were in before the sun went down and as a kid that was cool because it was time to eat candy anyway.
Through my life I never thought of the supernatural aspect of costume wearing on October 31st. As you know from reading my blog I speak to the dead so it came as a surprise to learn that the costumes were to scare away the ghosts.
Halloween was started by the Celtics, they celebrated Samhain and lit bonfires. The costumes would ward away the Earthbound Spirits.
Wow, just wow. The ancient practice of trying to be more frightening than ghosts has taken a turn. Today’s specters probably mock us as they haunt us freely on Halloween, being more mischievous than ever before. They have been putting the Trick in our Trick or Treat rituals.
I guess little Timmy isn’t afraid of the monsters under the bed because we told him they doesn’t exist. So he can wear a superhero costume this year and not worry about cohabiting with a spirit and can take his time sorting the pillowcase loot into chocolate and hard candy. Although maybe he and you should be worried. If the Spirits don’t feel frightened I’m sure they won’t mind staying a spell.
I myself like the Ghostbusters costume. It fits me. I’m not afraid of ghosts and confront them when the people who are afraid cannot do so themselves. I won’t pretend that I don’t get the heebyjeebees time to time but when I do, I know what to do. Do you?
This Halloween when you are choosing a costume, pick wisely. Being frightening may be more beneficial than being “cute” for a night. Especially the night of Samhain, Halloween.