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Forgiving is not forgetting

So many times I sit with folks and someone from the other side comes to speak with us only for me to hear “I don’t want to speak to them.” That’s a powerful statement, someone has taken the energy to come through and the living don’t have an interest in speaking with them. That means there was a tremendous amount of pain and hurt between the two parties at some point in life.

I would never and have never said that someone is “cursed.” That’s a word I don’t believe in, at this point in my understanding of energy and how things work from a psychic and Mediumship standpoint. With that said, having a horrible relationship with someone and not making an amends with them even after they have passed is as close to a curse as I have ever seen.

When a negative, bad or downright evil person has done harm to us in life why would we forgive them when they are gone? They don’t deserve forgiveness and they aren’t getting it. I understand, I totally understand. However just read this next part: Not forgiving them leaves you with an equal amount of pain as them. They are energetically tied to you in a negative way until you forgive them. The sooner your give forgiveness the sooner they will detach from your energy and You will feel better. Forgiving is not forgetting.

You don’t have to forget what they did, you shouldn’t. The past is important it helps build us into who we are, but forgiving someone (dead or alive) will leave you feeling better. I have said it for so long and those who take the following advice always come back and tell me how much better they feel after doing it.

Write a letter to the person who you are extending forgiveness to. Write down what they did wrong to you, how you feel about it, how it affected you and why you are going to forgive them. When that is done burn the letter. That’s it. Break the energetic tie.

After you do that please write to me and tell me how you did!

Good luck!

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Thank you for your continued support!
Scott

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Forgiving is not forgetting

So many times I sit with folks and someone from the other side comes to speak with us only for me to hear “I don’t want to speak to them.” That’s a powerful statement, someone has taken the energy to come through and the living don’t have an interest in speaking with them. That means there was a tremendous amount of pain and hurt between the two parties at some point in life.

I would never and have never said that someone is “cursed.” That’s a word I don’t believe in, at this point in my understanding of energy and how things work from a psychic and Mediumship standpoint. With that said, having a horrible relationship with someone and not making an amends with them even after they have passed is as close to a curse as I have ever seen.

When a negative, bad or downright evil person has done harm to us in life why would we forgive them when they are gone? They don’t deserve forgiveness and they aren’t getting it. I understand, I totally understand. However just read this next part: Not forgiving them leaves you with an equal amount of pain as them. They are energetically tied to you in a negative way until you forgive them. The sooner your give forgiveness the sooner they will detach from your energy and You will feel better. Forgiving is not forgetting.

You don’t have to forget what they did, you shouldn’t. The past is important it helps build us into who we are, but forgiving someone (dead or alive) will leave you feeling better. I have said it for so long and those who take the following advice always come back and tell me how much better they feel after doing it.

Write a letter to the person who you are extending forgiveness to. Write down what they did wrong to you, how you feel about it, how it affected you and why you are going to forgive them. When that is done burn the letter. That’s it. Break the energetic tie.

After you do that please write to me and tell me how you did!

Good luck!

Visit me at scottythenjmedium.com and the paranormal investigation team at parsinvestigations.com

Learn about my services here!
http://m.me/Scottythenjmedium

Join the discussion on my private Facebook page!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/848331228662198/

Want to see me on Inside Edition as I investigate Miss Fannys Paranormal Party House? Yeah you do! Click this link and check that amazing video out!

Click the link below to visit the Shanley Hotels web page to book an investigation!
Thehauntedshanleyhotel.com
Visit the PARS Team YouTube and subscribe!
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVROGd5sr8arY7e9eaeBBcg

Here are a few links to my favorite meditation videos!

Need gear for your investigation? Visit my affiliate link below!
https://www.ghoststop.com/?Click=50012

Thank you for your continued support!
Scott

#psychic #medium #psychicmedium #newjersey #tarot #ghosthunters #ghostadventures #ghostnation
#portalstohell #ghostcaughtontape #metaphysical forgiveness #letters #energy #love #family #movingon #lettinggo #advice

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Knowing (Protect from Energy Draining)

That’s a fairly broad title “Knowing.” Its supposed to be and you already know why. That deep felt inkling of who you are inside is just waiting to hit the surface of the Earth and make positive life changing events happen for you and more importantly those around you!

People come up to you all of the time and they unload the pressures and problems of their lives to you, at the grocery store and the laundromat and at your kids school. What about your face says “Hey I wanna hear your problems!”? Its not your face, its your aura or your energy. It is the person who has an issue feeling you and your “vibes” and knowing they can talk to you, but more importantly get good feed back from you.

Imagine that, complete strangers knowing they can get good advice from you! What’s more unbelievable is you are reading this and are like “Yeah and every time I seemingly know exactly what to say to them.” That Knowing goes both ways, we know them and they know us. It can be dangerous if you aren’t aware of the two way street of Knowing could find yourself drained, depressed and riddled with anxiety.

Believe it or not that exchange between you and the other person can sometimes be energy taxing and leave you absolutely scrambling for that huge cup of coffee or wine. The coffee to get you moving the wine to calm the nerves. Don’t worry about it if you are just learning this now, we are going to get you set up for the rest of your life.

Knowing what you know now you can start every day fresh and rested with a nice layer of protection around you. Head back to some of my other blogs about energetic protection and cutting energy cords. You’ll find all you need to know about keeping yourself free of energy dumps and drains.

You can now go out into the world and know that when a certain kind of person reaches out to you you’ll understand that the exchange is happening and that you can avoid it or protect against energy draining while it’s happening with some easy grounding and energy protection.

I hope you liked this and that you found some helpful information!

Visit me at scottythenjmedium.com and the paranormal investigation team at parsinvestigations.com

Learn about my services here!

http://m.me/Scottythenjmedium

Join the discussion on my private Facebook page!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/848331228662198/

Want to see me on Inside Edition as I investigate Miss Fannys Paranormal Party House? Yeah you do! Click this link and check that amazing video out!

Click the link below to visit the Shanley Hotels web page to book an investigation!

Thehauntedshanleyhotel.com

Visit the PARS Team YouTube and subscribe!

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVROGd5sr8arY7e9eaeBBcg

Here are a few links to my favorite meditation videos!

Need gear for your investigation? Visit my affiliate link below!

https://www.ghoststop.com/?Click=50012

Thank you for your continued support!

Scott

#psychic #medium #psychicmedium #newjersey #tarot #ghosthunters #ghostadventures #ghostnation

#portalstohell #ghostcaughtontape #metaphysical

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Paranormal Unity Expo!

Have you ever wondered what would happen if there was a convention for “Ghost Hunters” like there is for Comic books and movies? If so, I have just the thing for you!

There are various types of conventions and expos out there, comicon, horrorcon, trek fest and so on but perhaps the most unique gathering of all the groups of people are at this convention, the Paranormal Unity Expo. We don’t go to get scared, we go to meet our favorite paranormal TV celebrities, see new gear and maybe learn a few new tricks for investigation in the field. Most of all, for me, I like going to see old friends, people I met at the convention and those who I know from outside and meet there.

This year I had a great time meeting some new folks, seeing some new paranormal Investigators, TV and private and so much more. One of my favorite things was to go watch Dave Tango and Steven Gonsolves talk about their experiences on “Ghost Hunters” TV show. They are a great couple of guys and really funny as well.

I hope you have the time to check out my video below on YouTube of the convention this year. It was a great time!

Click this pic to watch the video!

Visit me at scottythenjmedium.com and the paranormal investigation team at parsinvestigations.com

Learn about my services here!

http://m.me/Scottythenjmedium

Join the discussion on my private Facebook page!

https://www.facebook.com/groups/848331228662198/

Want to see me on Inside Edition as I investigate Miss Fannys Paranormal Party House? Yeah you do! Click this link and check that amazing video out!

Click the link below to visit the Shanley Hotels web page to book an investigation!

Thehauntedshanleyhotel.com

Visit the PARS Team YouTube and subscribe!

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVROGd5sr8arY7e9eaeBBcg

Here are a few links to my favorite meditation videos!

Need gear for your investigation? Visit my affiliate link below!

https://www.ghoststop.com/?Click=50012

Thank you for your continued support!

Scott

#psychic #medium #psychicmedium #newjersey #tarot #ghosthunters #ghostadventures #ghostnation

#portalstohell #ghostcaughtontape #metaphysical

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Closing your Third Eye?

That sounds counter to what we do around here! Well if we always are working on opening our third eye then we also should know how to close it.

Maybe your Third Eye has always been open and you didn’t even know it, I have a link to my latest video below and I explain some of the symptoms of having an always open Third Eye and how to remedy that.

Don’t worry, you can reopen your third eye any time you like. After you get used to opening and closing you will feel better and be much better at doing it.

You see faces at bedtime when you close your physical eyes? Colors form and swirl? Anxiety go through the roof and your imagination takes off leading to worry, stress and a sleepless night?

This could help you! Click the link and Subscribe to the channel! I’ll see you soon on the next Spiritual Development Tip!

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Visit me and the paranormal investigation team at parsinvestigations.com

Want to see me on Inside Edition as I investigate Miss Fannys Paranormal Party House? Yeah you do! Click this link and check that amazing video out!

Click the link below to visit the Shanley Hotels web page to book an investigation!
Thehauntedshanleyhotel.com
Visit the PARS Team YouTube and subscribe!
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVROGd5sr8arY7e9eaeBBcg

Here are a few links to my favorite meditation videos!

Need gear for your investigation? Visit my affiliate link below!
https://www.ghoststop.com/?Click=50012

Thank you for your continued support!
Scott

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#portalstohell #ghostcaughtontape #metaphysical

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Learning.

We learn to modify what we are doing and how we are doing it through experience.

Experience comes with time and usually it leads to growth and a much more clear path. Recently I have done my first larger (50 people) gallery reading and it was awesome. I’m currently editing footage together to show you all on my YouTube channel.

Why is this important to you? Well I started my adventure into professional Mediumship by thinking I could do it. That progessed into individual readings, to parties and now into gallery style readings.

I was nervous, not really if I could do the readings but how to do them. I am constantly trying to better myself and mostly the only way to do that is to fail. Yeah I said “fail.” I did fail a few times during my gallery reading and next time I can handle myself a bit better. Perhaps I will understand the energy better and it will be more clear as to the messages that are coming to me. I’m sure that will be the case!

I want you to read that and know that you should keep on your path, it’s ok to fail. Maybe you have already and learned and are moving on to the next technique. Maybe you just realized the old way wasn’t working anymore and needed a new way to do things, which brings me to my other love. Paranormal Investigations.

We’ve seen TV shows use night vision and static cameras forever. Have they really caught anything amazing? Every once in a while they do. What about a new way to look for the paranormal and capture it on film?

Check out my latest YouTube video for just the tip and the best part is…its on a budget ghost hunting camera tips!

Click the link, subscribe and I will see you soon! Leave a comment and put your email on the mailing list for summer savings!

Visit me and the paranormal investigation team at parsinvestigations.com

Want to see me on Inside Edition as I investigate Miss Fannys Paranormal Party House? Yeah you do! Click this link and check that amazing video out!

Click the link below to visit the Shanley Hotels web page to book an investigation!

Thehauntedshanleyhotel.com

Visit the PARS Team YouTube and subscribe!

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVROGd5sr8arY7e9eaeBBcg

Here are a few links to my favorite meditation videos!

Need gear for your investigation? Visit my affiliate link below!

https://www.ghoststop.com/?Click=50012

Thank you for your continued support!

Scott

#psychic #medium #psychicmedium #newjersey #tarot #ghosthunters #ghostadventures #ghostnation

#portalstohell #ghostcaughtontape #metaphysical

Scotty

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The Haunted Shanley Hotel

What could possibly happen at a 100 plus year old hotel that has been a hotel, boarding house, home to the Irish and Italian Mafia? What kinds of activity could you possible encounter in a place where there are possibly over 20 active Spirits?

Maybe a disembodied voice or an EVP or two? How about the above and more! I recently visited the Shanley Hotel in New York State and it was amazing. I have been to many places that claimed paranormal activity but not many have lived up to the hype, so like most locations I arrived with little to no expectations of something happening. That was absolutely wrong.

First of all the Shanley has the classic haunted look from the outside, peeling white paint, old looking windows and a chillingly empty street that it sits on. As I pulled into the parking lot I could feel the electricity in the air, the Spirit Energy built up quickly. I wasn’t sure what to expect, there was no indication of how the night would go the moment the big green steal door opened and I was permitted entry into the Shanley Hotel.

I was lucky enough to have the foresight to film my hours on location in addition to the evidence capturing cameras that ran the entirety of my stay. Thanks to the parsinvestigations.com team I am sure there are volumes of evidence captured that will surface during evidence review. In the meantime I caught plenty of my own evidence, which is all put together in a nice tidy video on YouTube. You can click the link below and take a ghostly tour with me through the ornate hallways, the morgue bearing basement and the yet to be restored third floor.

Come with me, then schedule your next ghost adventure at the Haunted Shanley Hotel.

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Let messages in through your imagination!

Having trouble listening to Spirit? I can help you get those Spiritual Hearing Aids in!

The first thing we have to ask ourselves is “Do I have an open mind?” If the answer is “Yes!” with enthusiasm then let’s continue.

Can you close your eyes for a moment? Think about your dream get away. Maybe sandy beaches with the smell of suntan lotion in the air and a warm breeze gently brushing your cheeks. Perhaps it’s a mountain get away, cool foggy mornings with a hot cup of java and a view that looks over valleys into three counties over.

Did you picture either of those or something a little different? Go back to that place, close your eyes and imagine the details of things you would want to experience there. Now once you get there invite a friend. Let’s make it someone who has passed and you miss them.

Got them there? Are they wearing a favorite ensemble? How do they smell? Did they bring along something fun with them they did here in life? Maybe they just have a great big hug for you!

Now that you can see them in your dream vacation spot ask them how they are. I’m telling you this is where it gets tricky, but we are just using our imagination so that’s not a big deal. When you say to them “Hey, how are ya?” Do they answer? What did they say? I bet they said they were doing great but said it exactly how you would have expected them to!

Tell them about your day or life or kids or whatever you would have spoken to them about had they been here right next to you. When you get replies I want you to remember them! After you conversation is done take a moment to recall what was said, how it made you feel and how you feel right now.

Ok, write it down.

If you have done all that, then you have completed your first step of Spirit communication. Just because “that’s what they would have said and I know that” phrase is rolling through your head doesn’t mean it wasn’t them. Once you are comfortable speaking to those you love branch out with a friend and see how you do with one of their loved ones! That’s it! Good luck and I hope Spirit fills you with love, joy and confidence!

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Meet the Challenge

Have you been testing yourself? Having some doubts about your gifts? I hope not! If you have though I’m here to tell you that it is time to meet the challenge! Step out into the Spiritual Spotlight and give it a go.

Here are 3 steps to help you out!

Number 1: Start by confiding in friends and family. Those closest to you should absolutely get the direction you are headed. I would guess most wouldn’t be surprised. Tell them you would like a chance to try and use your Gift and explain that it will help you move forward on your path.

Number 2: Always be confident that Spirit will show up for you. Trust me when I tell you that Spirit will be there to give you what you are looking for during readings. Expect the first few readings to be rocky and have unexpected turns and twists. I started there and so did most people like us. Have you ever heard of a trust fall? Everyone gathers behind a person and then that person falls back blindly knowing the group will catch them. That’s what doing readings is like. Trust fall knowing Spirit will always catch you, and it will.

Number 3: Today is a better day to start than tomorrow. The sooner you start accepting your Gift and applying it to life the better you will be at using it and the more positive impact you will have on those around you! That’s what this Gift is for, blessing those around us and giving us a piece of mind that we are making a positive impact around us!

Get going! Don’t hesitate! Spirit is waiting for you and messages are going unanswered until you dial in and listen to them!

Leave a comment! Let me know how your progress is going! As always follow me on Facebook and Instagram @scottythenjmedium and check out my YouTube channel! We are live!

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Don’t overthink your Intuition! You are Psychic!

When people ask “How did you know you had this ability?” I always tell them

“I didn’t know!”

What did I know? That when I was getting information from beyond my 5 senses that it had to be verified and that and I wasn’t going to overthink it.

Don’t overthink your intuition! That’s the number 1 rule to understanding your higher self and your knowing of information beyond your 5 senses. For instance if I am doing a task and have a thought about a flat tire, I’ve learned to just be patient because I’m going to be the unlucky recipient of a flat or someone I know will be getting one in the very near future. Maybe I am in a location I’ve never been in before and I feel as though I shouldn’t be there, looking into some history later may yield results that an event occurred there that was unpleasant. Research will always help validate your feelings.

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Overthinking your own feelings, emotions and experiences will flatten your intuition. If everytime you had a feeling something wasn’t right or you had to call someone and knocked the idea down to act on it, you’d probably miss opportunities or find yourself looking back and saying “I should have acted on that.” Nothing feels worse than saying “I knew this was going to happen.”

-Hindsight is 20/20, Foresight is invaluable.

From now on what I would tell you to do is that every time you get a feeling write it down. Take a memo on your phone, voice record it. Make sure to include the date.

After that wait for any similar information to present itself in your life and make comparisons. If you find yourself 1% accurate than you are off to a great start. Build off of your accuracy, be encouraged that you are getting it right! Don’t doubt yourself, don’t overthink the information. If you are close, you are doing great! You are Psychic, we all are!

Scotty

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